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Day Two Hundred and Fifty-Four Attending the Cornell vs Columbia Football game and then the Sy Katz Parade to the Cornell Club “Hail, All Hail, Cornell” November 19th, 2022 (again November 23rd, 2024)

Do you know how horrible it is to lose to Columbia University in football? It’s when you lose to them by over twenty points. Both of our teams were 5-4 and the team that won not only won the Empire State Award (big deal) but had a winning record. I knew that we were in trouble when we fell behind 21-0.

Getting ready for the game

It was finally jubilant when we scored a touchdown and then it was 21-7. It was just meant to be as we fell behind again and again. The worst was toward the end of the game when we were at 38-22 and we kicked an onside kick. That is always a big mistake because it always ends with the other team getting a touchdown. Columbia got a touchdown immediately and the final score was 45-22. That was embarrassing.

The end of the game Columbia 45-Cornell 22 not our best game

It had been a nice afternoon in the stadium with clear blue skies and the weather was cool and crisp at between 48 to 50 degrees. I could not believe the crowd of alumni at the game. Even though Columbia is considered our rival I never took it much as a rivalry.

Cornell Alumni filling the stands at Columbia; we always outnumber them

Both of our teams in all the years that I have been coming to the game have not been that good. It’s just nice to go to a game and cheer someone on. It amazes me how every year no matter who wins we have more people in the stands than Columbia does.

It was beautiful in the stadium as long as the sun was out (then we got cold as darkness came)

Preparing to enter the stadium with great hopes of a blowout against Columbia

We came out so enthusiastic and ready to play ball, but it just did not look good when we could not score on the first play. We just did not look like we have a game plan. Then Columbia just kept scoring on us.

The start of the game

Even at half time, our band could not play on the field because one of the alumni said that they had a hazing problem at the Columbia band (which is so small I do not know what type of problems that they could have) and they banned them from campus. Then they banned other Ivy League teams from playing on their field as well. Let me put it this way, it was not the most exciting game. If it had not been for the group of alumni behind me cracking jokes and having fun, I would have been bored. The game became subdued when they left at the beginning of fourth quarter.

Going in for our first touchdown Columbia 21-Cornell 7

What also got to me was that it got dark in the stadium early. By the end of third quarter, the sun really moved across the sky, and it not only got dark, but it started to get cold in the stadium as well. For most of the game, it was clear, sunny and crisp and was pleasant in the stadium.

Going in for our third touchdown Columbia 38-Cornell 22

Then I noticed how fast the sun was moving in the sky and you could feel the evening chill. It must have dropped fifteen degrees by the time we left the stadium at the end of the game.

The last play of the game

After the game was over, I headed down to the Cornell Club on West 44th Street for the Annual Sy Katz Parade. In previous years, I had seen complete subway cars filled with alumni leaving the game. This time around there were only a handful of us on the Number One downtown. I thought that was strange.

Our teams are civil even after a loss

When I got to Rockefeller Center where the parade traditionally begins there was no one there. The two couples I came downtown with were there but then they disappeared. After waiting for about a half hour, I headed down to the Cornell Club on East 44th Street to see what was going on.

The end of the game

When I got to the club, I found out that they had to change the route of the parade due to permit problems and we started in front of One Vanderbilt Avenue between Grand Central Terminal and the office building in the plaza. It was funny to hear that somehow the two busses of band members and alumni heading back to campus got lost somewhere in New Jersey and had to head back into Manhattan. So, the rest of the alumni had to wait in Vanderbilt Plaza in the cold until they arrived about a half hour later. Then the fun began.

Preparing for the Sy Katz Parade in Vanderbilt plaza on Vanderbilt Avenue outside Grand Central Terminal

The Cornell Marching Band really got everyone revved up and the Cornell Cheerleaders and Dance Team really got everyone in the spirit (even though we got our asses kicked earlier in the day) and we had a good time as we made our way up Vanderbilt Avenue. We ended at the entrance of the Cornell Club on East 44th Street.

The Cornell Marching Band preparing for the parade from Vanderbilt Avenue

Cornell Alumni marching in the parade

Alumni marching to the Cornell Club where the pep rally is held every other year

The Band played all the school fight songs, the Alumna Mater and then traditional fight songs from the games. Since I was not an undergraduate at Cornell (I went for the PDP Graduate Program), I never learned the songs. I have to watch the YouTube videos on “On the Shores of Lake Cayuga” to learn the words. It has taken years to perfect it. Not like the Spartan songs from Michigan State (we were also having a bad football year) and I will do not know all the words to “MSU Shadows”.

Cornell School Song

‘Give my Regards to Davey’ (I never got this song)

The alumni were all excited and joined in the singing of the songs, watching the band hold their own traditions with marches and songs and then Sy Katz’s daughter, Alice, gave a speech in front of the club to wish everyone well. Her and her family were so happy that so many people came out to the parade. She and her family greeted the crowd so warmly that the alumni cheered her on as well. It was a nice crowd of enthusiastic people who sang and cheered.

Alice Katz welcoming the crowds at the Cornell Club on East 44th Street

Someone shot this at the parade in 2022

The Parade in 2018 pre-COVID

Our mascot also sang and danced at the parade

After the parade was over and most of the Alumni left for the evening, I joined everyone else in the Cayuga Room for a post-Alumni Tailgate dinner. It was really nice but I have to admit that the food tasted like it had been sitting for a bit.

The Hot Chicken Wings and the fresh salads were the best part of the tailgate

The Hamburger Sliders were hard and the buns crunched when you bit into them. The Chicken Fingers were good but tepid. The rest of the food was wonderful. They had two green salads, a Chili Bar with sides, a Meatball dish with a sweet sauce, a vegetarian sandwich and the best were the Hot Chicken Wings which were the best I have tasted in a while. We ended up going through two trays of those while I was in the room eating.

The sliders had been under the heat lamp or the warmer too long

For dessert, they had assorted cookies and brownies with tea, coffee and hot chocolate which was perfect when I was trying to warm up after it being so cool outside.

The desserts at the club are always wonderful

As I talked with other Alumni, I was amazed that I was the only one at my side of the table who went to the game. Everyone else had come in for the parade and tailgate. The one thing everyone said to me at the table when I discussed us getting our asses kicked was “You went to the Game?” I then replied, “Didn’t you?” and it was the same answer, “No, I do not go to that.” I took it as the alumni that went to the game were not the same ones that went to the parade. Oh well!

I had a wonderful time and it was so nice to have this event since the last time in 2018. So it will be until 2024 the next time I go again. I could not believe that I have been coming to this for over a decade.

I’m the dedicated Alumni! Go Red!!!!!

Game Day November 2024:

Another great disappointment as we played lousy again and lost 17-9. It really was not much of a game. It boggles my mind that we have so many Alumni come out for the game, and we still always lose. We have so much promise with a new coach and a new way of playing the game. This was the last game of the season, and it was not much of a season. When we got blown out by Colgate who was 0-3 and lost the next two games after us, I knew we were in trouble. To beat Yale and Princeton, their teams must have been pretty bad. Still, I love this game.

Inwood Park foliage was beautiful, it is in the City, and I love the Sy Katz Parade and the tailgate afterwards. It is worth the money and the trip into the City and up to Inwood Park. The sad part is the team itself. We never win. In the last three times I have com to the game in six years, we have never won this rivalry game and that makes the tailgate more depressing. The funny part is that most of the people who come to the tailgate go to the Sy Katz Parade and never the game.

The Muscato Marsh the day of the game

Even with the wildfires in this area, the foliage was still so beautiful in Muscato Marsh, which is right next to Baker Field and in Inwood and Isham Park.

Isham Park in the early morning of the game

The stairs leading to Isham Park

I got uptown with just enough time to walk around the neighborhood for a bit and get some nice pictures of the foliage.

Isham Park

Video of the Band arriving outside the stadium:

The day started out pretty gloomy and cool as a much needed rain storm finally passed by. The sun would start to peak our around half time creating a typical Fall day for football.

The Alumni and parents staying to fill the stands at Baker Stadium that afternoon

Looking down on the field before the start of the game

I hate to say it but it is a bit pathetic when the visiting team has more fans than the home team. I have been coming to this rivalry game for over a decade and I never see the Columbia side of the stadium ever full. Even when they have a good record.

Our Team coming onto the field to start the game

Video of the entrance with much fanfare.

Even at the start of the game more of our college’s fans kept coming.

We filled our side of the stadium to the brim

The Columbia side of the stadium. It got smaller as the game went on.

Our side of the stadium after our first field goal. We were losing 7-3. It would not be a high scoring game.

The first half of the game literally flew by and then we were at half time with the score of 7-3. I could not believe how bad both teams were playing. Neither side played that well the first half.

I stayed around for most of half time. We had to watch the Columbia Pep Band and that was not fun. I had heard Junior High performances better than that. Then we came on with ten minutes left and it was an enjoyable performance.

Video of our Marching Band:

At the start of third quarter, I left to get some lunch. The stadium prices were so expensive ($8.00 for a hot dog?). I walked down the street and ate at Park Terrace Deli at 510 West 218th Street (see my review on TripAdvisor and DiningonaShoeStringinNYC@Wordpress.com). I have been coming here for years when doing the Broadway walk and the Great Saunter and the food is always wonderful and so reasonable.

The place was mobbed with people from the game who had the same idea that I had. I was going to order a breakfast sandwich but all these burger deluxe kept coming out and then I craved a Cheeseburger Deluxe and it hit the spot.

Park Terrace Deli at 510 West 218th Street

http://www.parkterracedeli218thst.com/

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g60763-d4636946-Reviews-Park_Terrace_Deli-New_York_City_New_York.html?m=69573

My review on DiningonaShoeStringinNYC@Wordpress.com:

https://wordpress.com/post/diningonashoestringinnyc.wordpress.com/2930

The Cheeseburger was over-sized and so juicy. You could tasted the caramelized meat inside the fresh bun accented by the lettuce and tomato. And lots of ketchup and pickles. It was so good on a cool afternoon. I took my lunch and ate it at the stadium much to the looks of the people eating the expensive hot dogs and pretzels.

The Cheeseburger Deluxe at Park Terrace Deli is caramelized and juicy

Yum!

I got back into the stadium at the very end of the Third Quarter and the score was still the same. This game was pretty bad.

When I walked back in there were even more fans

This was the Cornell side of the stadium at the end of the Third Quarter even with these scores

The weather when it finally cleared

All of us cheering at another accomplished field goal

Columbia would score again making it 14-6 so it was not too bad and I thought we could catch up. We just can’t close out a game.

Us going in for an attempted touchdown with the score now 17-6. It was not meant to be. When the player ran in for the touchdown and was open, he would hit the goal post.

Video of the play:

Video of the field goal:

We then went in for the field goal and we made that for the score of 17-9. It would stay that way.

The end of the game was even more painful as there were almost no fans left on the Columbia side as their football player paraded around the ‘New York Bowl’ to an empty crowd and our legions of fans walked out again with another losing season. I really felt for our new coach. He is going to have to really rebuild this team from ground up.

After the game was over, I had about two hours before the Sy Katz Parade would begin so I walked around Inwood Park and admired the foliage at sunset. It was just magnificent.

The Muscato Marsh after the game

The Muscato Marsh in the late afternoon

The inlet in Inwood Hill Park

The brilliance of the sun on the park

The sun in the late afternoon

It was really beautiful sad the sun started to set

I walked down Broadway to 207th Street to see all the foliage. Even Ann Loftus Playground still had the beautiful hues of the trees.

Ann Loftus Playground at 207th Street

I took the A train back to midtown and met all the other Alumni in Vanderbilt Plaza by Grand Central Terminal as we waited for the band to show up. t least this year the bus driver did not get lost and the band showed up pretty promptly.

Arriving at Vanderbilt Plaza

Admiring the beauty of this part of the City as the sun set

Admiring Grand Central Terminal

Getting ready to start the Parade as the band arrived

The band brought a new energy to the parade. They did not seem to care that we just lost our last game of the season. They were too busy having a good time.

The band getting into position to start the parade

Everyone getting ready to start the march to the Cornell Club

Our Band Major starting the Parade

Video of the start of the Sy Katz parade:

Band and Alumni marching up Fifth Avenue

Heading to East 44th Street where the Cornell Club is located

Video of the March up Fifth Avenue:

We got to the front of the Cornell Club where everything was set up for our Pep Rally and because the weather had gotten much nicer by the end of the evening, we had a big crowd.

The start of the fight song

Video of the fight song:

Then they played our Alma Mater ’On the Shores of Lake Cayuga’

Playing the school song

Then Elaine Katz, Sy Katz’s daughter got up and gave a beautiful speech about her dad and his love of the college. It was very touching.

Elaine Katz honoring her father, who founded this parade

Then the played the last song of the evening, the Alma Mater before closing the parade

After the song was over and there was a lot of loud cheers and applause, it was time to eat and that meant the ‘Tailgate Dinner’ in the Cayuga Room.

The ‘Tailgate Dinner’ in the Cayuga Room

I was able to arrive before most of the Alumni started to arrive for dinner and was able to take pictures around the Cayuga Room, where the dinner was taking place.

The room was really festive with red and white decorations around the room and centerpieces with tiny Cornell bears smiling back at us.

The centerpieces at dinner

The ‘Tailgate Dinner’ was really nice and the food was excellent. They created a nice menu for us of popular dishes and the food kept coming as we had a packed house after the parade was over.

The Salad Bar with Kale Salad and Mixed Greens was by far the most popular station. Everyone enjoyed the salads.

For the entrees, we started the meal with Vegetarian Chili and fresh rolls and Pork Meatballs with barbecue sauce.

The next station had Potato Skins with all the toppings and Pulled Pork sliders with their topping which we put together ourselves.

The hot station also had Vegetarian sandwiches, which were not the popular and the Buffalo Chicken Wings, which were meaty and delicious. The chicken was really popular on this cool night.

The Dessert Bar was laden with all sorts of freshly baked goodies that included Lemon Bars, Brownies and Blondies and freshly baked Oatmeal Raison, Chocolate Chip and White Chocolate cookies.

The Brownies and Blondies on the Dessert Bar

It was a really nice evening and the perfect way to sallow our loss at the game with lots of sweet desserts. I had a nice time making chit chat with other Alumni.

This is the best way to drown your sorrows

It was another fun afternoon and evening and see everyone again in 2026 and hopefully our new coach will do some positive recruiting in the off season and we can win this one again. Until then, another football season is behind us.

Go Red!

My Life as a Fireman: The Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association: The Annual Breakfast Meeting at the Wyckoff Fire Department November 20th, 2022

Thank you to the Wyckoff Fire Department Company One for hosting us again for breakfast. We look forward to this every year. Thank you fellow brothers!

The Members of the Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association at the Wyckoff Fire Department Company One breakfast.

The delicious breakfast cooked by our hosts for us that morning.

Members of the Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association digging in for breakfast

Thank you to our Brothers at the Wyckoff Fire Department Company One for hosting us again!

jwatrel's avatarThe Bergen County Firemen's Home Association

The members of the Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association at their Annual Breakfast Meeting at the Wyckoff Fire House in Wyckoff, NJ.

The members of the Bergen County Firemen’s Home met for their Annual Breakfast Meeting at the Wyckoff Fire Department in Wyckoff, NJ on November 2oth, 2022. After our flag salute and Fireman’s Prayer, we sat down to true tradition in the fire service, a fireman’s breakfast.

A Fire Department breakfast is the best way to start the day

The members of the Wyckoff Fire Department very generously cooked a wonderful breakfast for our members that included scrambled eggs, bacon, sausage, steak, hash browns and rolls.

Members digging in for breakfast at the Wyckoff Fire House

Members of the BCFHA wives took time to bake for us as well. We had a selection of cakes and muffins to enjoy during and after the meeting. Our host’s wife always makes…

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Hyde Park Historical Society 4389 Albany Post Road Hyde Park, NY 12538

Don’t miss this gem of a museum in Downtown Hyde Park, NY that takes pride in the local community and its history.

The Hyde Park Historical Society in Hyde Park, NY

jwatrel's avatarVisiting a Museum: The Unique, Unusual, Obscure and Historical

Hyde Park Historical Society

4389 Albany Post Road

Hyde Park, NY 12538

(845) 229-2559

https://hydeparkhistoricalsociety1821.org/

https://www.hydeparkny.us/669/Hyde-Park-Historical-Society

Open: Sunday 11:00am-3:00pm/Monday-Friday Closed/Saturday 10:00am-3:00pm

Fee: Free

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g60801-d3426818-Reviews-Hyde_Park_Historical_Society_Museum-Hyde_Park_New_York.html

The Hyde Park Historical Society at 4389 Albany Post Road

The Hyde Park Historical Society is going through a type of rebirth as it has reopened with a fresh approach towards not just the history of Hyde Park, NY but the area in general and life here over the last two hundred years. The society is taking a new direction and revamping their efforts on the displays and on the history and activities of the museum. The museum is housed in what was once the Hyde Park, NY Fire Department building.

The museum is broken down into sections by displays. When you enter the museum there is an display of bicycles and recreation items that would have been used over the years…

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J’s Pizza 96 Seventh Avenue New York, NY 10011

Don’t miss the wonderful lunch and dinner specials at J’s Pizza.

Don’t miss the pizzeria on the corner of Seventh Avenue

The wonderful selection at J’s Pizzeria

The Lasagna Dinner Special at J’s Pizza is excellent. The garlic knots are included in on the $9.00 special.

jwatrel's avatarDining on a Shoestring in the New York City area and beyond.

J’s Pizza

96 Seventh Avenue

New York, NY 10011

(646) 760-8120

https://www.jspizzamenu.com/

Open: Sunday-Saturday 11:00am-8:30pm

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g60763-d4432818-Reviews-J_s_Pizza-New_York_City_New_York.html?m=19905

J’s Pizza at 96 Seventh Avenue

I have been coming to J’s Pizza for many years and had eaten here in the past after viewing the Halloween Parade in October. I just rediscovered it again when I started grad school in the neighborhood and forgot how good the food was when I dined here. The pizza slices are generous in size and their marinara and pizza sauces you can tell are freshly made and not from a can.

The sauces for all the meals here from the pizza, to the spaghetti and meatballs to the sauce that is the side to the many rolls and calzones is well spiced and has so much flavor to it. It really makes the dishes.

J’s Pizza counter is lined with pizzas and calzones

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Day Two Hundred and Fifty-The Second Annual Hasbrouck Heights Men’s Association Halloween House Decorating Contest October 30th, 2022

Haunted Hasbrouck Heights returns with the Second Annual Hasbrouck Heights Men’s Association Halloween Decorated House Contest 2022

It was a series of long drives around town, late nights looking at spooky lights, figures of fright and things that go bump in the night but the members of the Hasbrouck Heights Men’s Association Halloween Decorating Contest made a decision who had the best decorated house and downtown business in Hasbrouck Heights.

Decorations at 85 Woodside Avenue

Like last year the decision was tough but we chose 85 Woodside Avenue, the home of Matt and Lisa Fiduccia, last year’s runners up. The house was decorated to the hilt with ghosts, ghouls and figures that frightened the passersby. “We learned more from last year,” Matt Fiduccia said when they found out they won this year’s contest. “We added more to it.”

85 Woodside Avenue in Hasbrouck Heights Halloween 2022-Winner

The zombies and ghouls of 85 Woodside Avenue

The committee liked the theme of the property, the organization of the props and decorations of the doorway and the lighting of the house the night before Halloween which really showcased their creativity. The family was really excited about winning this year and the whole Fiduccia family joined Chairman Justin Watrel and Hasbrouck Heights Men’s Association President Steve Palladino for the presentation of the plaque and official sign from the organization declaring them winner. It was an award well deserved.

Chairman Justin Watrel with the Fiduccia family at 85 Woodside Avenue

Winners Matt and Lisa Fiduccia with their children and the official sign from the Hasbrouck Heights Men’s Association

It was a tough decision to make this year as last year’s winner, Scott Vicario and runners up last year Frank and Mary Rose Blunda also created wonderful displays that would dazzle and delight trick or treaters the next night for Halloween.

253 Henry Street-The Runner-up this year

This is the second year Scott Vicario created a moving cemetery and ghoul fest all over his front lawn starting with a possessed woman climbing a tree outside the property and a variety of ghouls and zombies climbing popping and walking around the yard. “I keep finding new things to add to the display,” Scott told the committee when he was presented his award. “I look for professionally made displays.” Mr. Vicario who lives at 253 Henry Street said he “has more planned for next year” to win the award back.

Last year’s winner, Scott Vicario, was runner up this year

Some of the decorations were truly frightening

Ghosts and ghouls at 253 Henry Street

Scott Varicario in front of 253 Henry Street

253 Henry Street was full of zombies and ghosts

The other runners up last year, Frank and Mary Rose Blunda, keep creating frightening but friendly displays that dazzle their Halloween visitors. Trick or Treaters keep coming back for the displays of vampires and pumpkin headed beasts.

510 Henry Street

“We really love Halloween and we do this for the kids,” Frank Blunda said. “The families get such a kick out of visiting our house every year.” The Blunda’s love that families take a special trip to see their home.

The Ghosts, Ghouls and Pumpkin Heads of 510 Henry Street

Mary Rose and Frank Blunda of 510 Henry Street were runners-up again this year

Chairman Justin Watrel with Mary Rose and Frank Blunda at 510 Henry Street

The House Decorating Committee added a Merchant Division this year and we were dazzled by Heights Flower Shoppe, who always displays their holiday merchandise so nicely. Ray Vorisek, the owner of Heights Flower Shoppe was very thankful to the committee for the award. “We always like decorating the store to the hilt for the holidays.

Heights Flower Shoppe at 209 Boulevard in Hasbrouck Heights, NJ

People come from all over to visit us.” Both inside and outside, the store was full of all sorts of merchandise to decorate the house and for creative Halloween parties. Ghosts and witches flowed all over the store.

The decorations of the windows at Heights Flower Shoppe

With winner and owner, Ray Vorisek

Chairman Justin Watrel with owner Ray Vorisek outside the store with the official Hasbrouck Heights Men’s Association sign

The Runner-up was Spindler’s Bakery, owned by Bob and Ginny Spindler, whose family business has been in Hasbrouck Heights for over fifty years.

Spindler’s Bake Shop at 247 Boulevard was this year’s runner up

“We have a creative team that works together here,” Mrs. Spindler said as she accepted her framed award. “It is a team effort that got the store ready for the holiday.” Spindler’s Bakery not only decorated the windows with pumpkins and bears ready for Trick or Treating but the store had all sorts of delicious looking decorated pastries and cookies, perfect for any Halloween Party.

The inside of Spindler’s Bake Shop with decorations and Halloween treats

Chairman Justin Watrel with runner-up winner, Ginny Spindler and her co-worker

We also wanted to mention the Honorary mentions, whose decorated home made the first and second round cut of the contest and we wish you luck next year. These are 110 Central Avenue, 458 Jefferson Avenue, 415 Madison Avenue, 115 Ottawa Avenue and 310 Bell Avenue. Good luck and have a wonderful and safe holiday season from the Hasbrouck Heights Men’s Association.

Honorary Mentions:

110 Central Avenue

110 Central Avenue

458 Jefferson Avenue

458 Jefferson Avenue

115 Ottawa Avenue

115 Ottawa Avenue

310 Bell Avenue

310 Bell Avenue

415 Madison Avenue

415 Madison Avenue

Bell Avenue

Bell Avenue

Central Avenue

Central Avenue

Ottawa Avenue

Ottawa Avenue

We will see everyone when Santa arrives when we start Christmas Tree sales the day after Thanksgiving. We sell out fast!

The link to the article on Tapinto:

https://www.tapinto.net/towns/hasbrouck-heights-slash-wood-ridge-slash-teterboro/sections/in-the-community/articles/the-hasbrouck-heights-men-s-association-s-halloween-decorating-contest-returns-for-2022

Day Two Hundred and Forty-Eight Got accepted to NYU (New York University) for Graduate School! September 2022

My last night of freedom. Maricel took me to the Sheraton Canal Street as a present

I found out the night of the “Rocking it in Rutherford-Be a Tourist in your own Town” event back in April that I had gotten accepted to New York University for my Masters Degree. I had applied months earlier for the college after the initial get together in October of 2019 (pre-Pandemic). I never thought I would get in but there was the email the night of the presentation as almost a gift from God that I had done good work with the students.

My ID card picture

It has been exciting journey so far and this leads to the next stage of my life. For the next two years I will be playing “college student” for the fifth time (Michigan State University, Fashion Institute of Technology, Culinary Institute of America and Cornell University proceeded it).

I will be graduating in the Spring of 2024 with my Masters in Science in Global Hospitality Management and from there, who knows? I like the idea that there is a new future with a new job and new adventures coming soon. It will be a long ride with a lot of hard work but I look forward to my future.

The blogs may come slower than before but I will be doing a lot more exploring of the City in between classes.

Wish me luck!

Maricel and I the weekend before I started Graduate School

Graduated May 17th, 2024: My blog on Graduation!

Day Two Hundred and Forty-Nine: This is dedicated to my father, Warren Watrel October 14th, 2022

I dedicate this blog to the man who inspired this walk around Manhattan and beyond. Whose sense of adventure and love of New York City always showed with each trip we made into New York City.

I love you Dad!

(My father and I at the Union Square Café Restaurant in 2009).

Hudock’s Custard Stand 544 Salem Quinton Road Salem, NJ 08079

For a step back in time to a slower time and relaxing during the summer, Hudock’s Custard Stand is for you.

Going to Hudock’s is a step back in time to long warm summers and enjoying nature that surrounds us.

The hot dogs and fries are amazing! Especially when dining outside on the picnic tables.

Hudock’s Custard Stand menu in 2022-Their prices are so reasonable for their customers. It’s nice to see a restaurant be fair with their prices in this economy. Kudos to them!

Eating at the picnic tables at Hudock’s is a step back into time when things were a lot slower and you relaxed and enjoyed a meal outside.

Hudock’s Custard Stand is going to become part of my visits to southern New Jersey in the future if for anything just a moment where I can just relax and eat and worry about nothing else but a warm sunny afternoon.

Hudock’s Ice Cream & Custard menu 2022

The menu at Hudock’s is very reasonable (2022 menu)

Hudock’s Ice Cream menus and specials

Hudock’s full Ice Cream menu in Fall 2024 just a week before closing for the season in October

The heavenly Peach Ice Cream with bits of Fresh Jersey peaches in it. This is one of their signature homemade ice Creams

Yum!

Hudock’s October 2024 just before closing for the season

Sitting at the picnic tables at Hudock’s October 2024

Hudock’s nearing sunset October 2024

jwatrel's avatarDining on a Shoestring in the New York City area and beyond.

Hudock’s Custard Stand

544 Salem Quinton Road

Salem, NJ 08079

(856) 935-5224

https://www.facebook.com/people/Hudocks-Custard-Stand/100064101820444/

https://www.menupix.com/menudirectory/menu.php?id=3000080

Open: (Seasonal) Sunday-Saturday 10:00am-10:00pm (will close in October)

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g46799-d5555493-Reviews-Hudock_s_Frozen_Custard_Stand-Salem_New_Jersey.html?m=19905

I love this classic little Jersey food stand! Talk about character!

The one thing about Hudock’s Custard Stand is that it is a piece of New Jersey nostalgia to a time when things were just a little slower and when you visit, they still are. When people come here to dine, there is not a cellphone in site and people sit in the chairs or at the picnic tables and just talk to one another. Or admire the beautiful views of the surrounding farms. On a warm sunny day, there is nothing like a cup of ice cream or a footlong hot dog to make you forget your troubles.

Where you order food at Hudock’s

Hudock’s keeps things simple and friendly when you…

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Day Two Hundred and Forty-Six Exploring City Island in the Bronx-A Local Journey August 13th, 2022 (Again on August 19th, 2023)

I went to City Island in search of a witch. Along the way I saw so much more.

City Island in New York City

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/City_Island,_Bronx

https://www.nycgo.com/boroughs-neighborhoods/the-bronx/city-island/

The welcome sign to City Island

This was the first time I had been to City Island since 2008 when I visited the island for research for my third book “Dinner at Midnight” in which one of the main characters is a witch that moves to City Island. I had walked every street on the island trying to get a feel for what it might be like to live on the island and what the character may experience. There is a very important scene in the book where her boss comes to the island to search for her and notes to close proximity to Hart Island, New York City.

One of the two houses that I was impressed with on the island

The other house that impressed me overlooked the Long Island Sound.

He comes searching for the truth about his unusual employee and finds out too much. I will just leave this as a spoiler as I have not finished the last two chapters of the book yet. You can read the first book in my New York City trilogy, “Firehouse 101” that is available at IUniverse.com and Google Books.

My first book in the New York Trilogy “Firehouse 101”

On top of research for my book, “Dinner at Midnight”, I wanted to visit the City Island Nautical Museum for my blog, “VisitingaMuseum.com” as I had not been to the museum since I visited the island again in 2008. That was when I stayed at La Refuge, an inn that is now a private home. To add to the creepiness of the storyline, is that when I stayed at the inn for two nights, the first night in the first room there was no problem.

The former “La Refuge Inn” is now a private home and I think is haunted

The former “Pell Mansion” is hidden from the street in parts.

When for some reason the second night they made me move to a back room, I could not sleep all night. I kept thinking that someone was in the room with me, and I finally had to sleep with the lights on. I never stayed or came back to the inn before it closed a few years later. I never felt that way before staying in an inn or B & B, and I have stayed in a lot of old houses.

The former “Pell Mansion” hidden from the street

Before I visited the museum, I had to stop for something to eat. I had a very early breakfast wanting to get to City Island early so I got hungry again. I was surprised that the pizzeria around the corner from the museum was closed and the diner near the museum was closing soon as well. I found the Sea Breeze Deli at 325 City Island Avenue just down the road from the museum and stopped there.

The Sea Breeze Deli at 325 City Island Avenue

https://www.facebook.com/seabreezedelicorp/

I felt like I had walked into time warp as the place looked like it was from the 1970’s. Even thought it was a bit dated inside, I ordered a Bacon, Egg and Cheese on a roll ($4.00) and it was terrific (See review on TripAdvisor) and hit the spot where I was ready for a long day of exploring.

The Bacon, Egg and Cheese on a roll is terrific at Sea Breeze Deli

https://www.facebook.com/seabreezedelicorp/

The sandwich was delicious.

The City Island Nautical Museum located at 190 Fordham Street, had not changed much from that visit. The museum is located on a quiet, residential street just off the main strip of City Island Avenue. It is located in what was the old PS 17, the island’s elementary school. Loaded with information but a bit jumbled with historic artifacts all over the place. Still, it is a great little museum.

The City Island Nautical Museum at 190 Fordham Street

https://www.cityislandmuseum.org/

Each room in the museum has a different theme to it with more information lining the hallways (See my review on VisitingaMuseum.com). The Community Room toward the back of the museum shows the history of the City Island starting with the Native Americans and the Dutch and how the settlement grew. Lining the walls were signs and memorabilia from businesses that once dotted the island and a little about their history. There are all sorts of ads and items once carried by the merchants.

The Main Hallway at the City Island Nautical Museum is filled with the history of the America’s Cup races.

The Schoolroom had the history of PS 75 and PS 175 which were the public schools located on the island as well as St. Mary’s, the recently closed Catholic school. It had old class photos, pictures of the school at various times and a complete schoolroom set up. The rooms that dealt with Ship Building and the Nautical past were the most interesting.

The City Island Nautical Museum’s Schoolroom Gallery

City Island has a rich history in ship building, sail making and fishing it is reflected in the collection of materials in the museum and its archives. The museum really details the growth and history of the boating industry on the island and its importance in the local economy. What I found interesting was the rich history of the creation of the sailing ships for the America’s Cup tournament and how all the winning boats up until the 1980’s were built on the island and the one that lost the cup for us against Australia was the first one not built on the island.

The Nautical Room at the City Island Maritime Museum

Even Ted Turner’s boat “Courageous” was built on the island. There was a picture of the reunion of the boat winning twice at the museum with the crew’s signatures (The tour guide even said how he ‘freaked out’ members of the New York Yacht Club who did not consider him one of their own). All the sailing vessels lined the walls of the hallway of the museum.

The Nautical Room’s Americas Cup Race display

The display of winner of the Americas Cup award

Each room of the museum was dedicated to a different theme. When I toured the Community Room in the back of the museum, it held the records of a lot of old businesses of City Island with pictures and items that were once part of the businesses. There was a small FDNY display, a small WWII display about local residents who fought in the war, wedding garments, maps of the island and a small display of arrowheads.

The Community Room Gallery at the museum

Household items and clothing in the Community Room Gallery

The City Island Business items in the Community Room

In the School Room, the concentration was on PS 17, which the museum is now housed in and its history with all the classroom group shot pictures, graduation pictures and a small classroom set up. There were more records and event items of the current PS 175, which is the K-8 school that the residents attend. There were also records and pictures of St. Mary, Star of the Sea School, the former Catholic school that used to be on the island as well.

The School Room Gallery with information on the education field of City Island

The School Room display in the gallery

The Nautical Room needed an overall as there was too much going on in the room with pictures all over the walls, equipment for navigation and for fishing and records of the ship building companies that used to dot the island. There were boats in various shapes and sizes on display and the companies that built them like Wood Yacht, Nevins Yacht and Minneford Yacht. There was also the history of shipbuilding and sail making on the island. The tour guide told me there were no more ship builders on the island, but one sail maker left.

The Nautical Room Gallery at the museum

The Library where all the research is done on the island and on the families and businesses that were once here was dominated by yachting pictures and nautical photography. It held all the City Island records and even the ship building plans.

The City Island Nautical Museum Library

The museum has a lot to see but it needs to be a bit more organized to really showcase the collections properly. Still, it is one of the best museums I have seen with a nautical history theme. The best part is that you can see the whole museum in about an hour and this leaves you time to tour the island and see how the museum better explains why the island is the way it is right now.

The City Island Nautical Museum sign when I was leaving.

After I left the museum, I decided to tour the whole island and started with a tour down Fordham Street which lead me to the new apartment complex and their little walled park. It went in a spiral pattern and then I turned myself around back to the street and stood and admired the views. You get the most spectacular views on the Long Island Sound and the mysterious Hart Island from here.

The view of the mysterious Hart Island in the book.

I then took a tour of King Street and passed the beautiful but eerie Pelham Cemetery. It just sat in front of the beautiful backdrop of the bay still giving you a look of longing. I wanted to walk through it but the cemetery was locked and there was no trespassing signs all over the place. I just admired it from the gate looking for family names.

The Pelham Cemetery on King Street in City Island also mentioned in the book.

https://www.pelhamcemetery.org/

The entrance to the cemetery

https://www.findagrave.com/cemetery/65607/pelham-cemetery

The cemetery during the day. It does not seem creepy during the daylight hours.

The Cemetery overlooking the sound.

As I walked up both King and Minneford Streets, I admired the hodge-podge of architecture of the homes on the island. There are rows of bungalows and elegant Victorians with their large porches and shade trees again with the bay in the background in some cases.

A nice little bungalow right across the street from the museum.

Another interesting house in the neighborhood.

As I rounded up Terrace Street and got to the northern tip of the island, I saw the house that I used in the book as the home of the mysterious and sinister Serena Platt, the spell bounder in my novel. I set her apartment in this house and thought it had the right mood as a place that would be here home. I saw a couple of kids playing basketball on the property and did not want to stay too long to stare at it.

The original house that that I thought might make an interesting movie scene.

As I walked back down King and Minneford Streets, I saw another Victorian home with a dark colored paint job that might fit the mood of her home as well. I had not noticed this house when I was walking around the island years earlier on a scouting trip. With its dark tones and wrap around porch, it looked like something you would find in New England or Salem, MA.

The City Island Avenue Business District

As I made my way down Cross Street back to City Island Avenue, I wanted to walk the whole street to see what stores and restaurants were there from I visited last. Most of the seafood restaurants were still there but the smaller antique and clothing stores were now gone. Many of the little unique stores had long since closed someone told me at a store I visited. Between the economy and the pandemic, they had taken their toll on business owners.

The City Avenue landscaping

The City Island Diner at 304 City Island Avenue

https://cityislanddiner.com/

Review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g47369-d5082525-Reviews-City_Island_Diner-Bronx_New_York.html?m=19905

As I walked through the business district passing some of the old time businesses and seeing the new ones that have opened since last summer, I took a side detour and saw another historical site on the island, the Delmour’s Point home at 21 Tier Street. This beautiful old home has been used for many photo and film shoots and like a lot of historical sites on the island has keep out signs.

The Delmour’s Point home at 21 Tier Street

https://www.americanlandmarks.org/post/2018/09/18/21-tier-street-house

As I walked down City Island Avenue, I passed more familiar sites that had opened up since the previous year. I passed Licky Split, an ice cram shop that I had tried in the past when visiting the island. I love their whimsical way they attract people. The ice cream store has always been popular on all the trips I have made to the island.

Licky Split at 295 City Island Avenue

https://www.facebook.com/licketysplitcityisland/

Review on TripAdvisor:

I love their sign!

Next to the ice cream store is Hawkins Park, a great place to relax and enjoy your ice cream on a hot day. I enjoy just siting down and relaxing in the shade. It is such a popular park with everyone of all ages.

Hawkins Street Park and the Soldiers Memorial is at 281 City Island Avenue

https://www.nycgovparks.org/parks/hawkins-park/highlights/11690

https://www.facebook.com/events/hawkins-park-281-city-island-ave-city-island/hawkins-park-city-island-n-y/493606428057063/

The very cute Hawkins Street Park is a nice place to relax on a hot day.

Off to the side of the island before I got to the point of the island where some of the most popular restaurants were located, I stopped to look at the historic Belden House which was just to the right of the restaurants.

The Belden Home at 175 Belden Street.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/175_Belden_Street

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The weird part of the historical sites on City Island is that they are sectioned off with signs of trespassing if you get too close to them but are on the island’s literature. Does not make much sense to me.

That may have been with the traditional businesses but not with the restaurants. As I walked down City Island Avenue from north to south, it seemed that every restaurant was getting a crowd especially as I walked further down the road.

The 9/11 Memorial just off City Island Avenue.

The City Island Grace Episcopal Church at 116 City island

https://www.gracecityisland.net/

I loved the canoe artwork in front of City Island School PS 175

https://www.schools.nyc.gov/schools/X175

Sammy’s Fish Box at 41 City Island Avenue seemed to dominate the street with its various outlets. They have really grown even more since I on the island the last time. They must have had four different buildings. I could not remember if I had eaten there the last time I visited. At the tip of the island are Johnny’s Reef and Tony’s Pier, two extremely popular seafood restaurants that I do remember eating at then I visited years ago.

The Sammy’s Restaurant complex of restaurants at 41 City Island Avenue

https://www.facebook.com/SammysFishBox/

Review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g47369-d2249333-Reviews-Sammy_s_Fish_Box-Bronx_New_York.html?m=19905

When I walked into Tony’s Pier at 1 City Island Avenue, the parking lot was jammed with cars and the line was about 50 deep with customers. I was like ‘no way’ with this wait. It was too long, and everyone was getting antsy in the line. It was going by really slow.

Tony’s Pier Restaurant at 1 City Island Avenue

https://www.tonyspiercityisland.com/

Review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g47369-d2420587-Reviews-Tony_s_Pier_Restaurant-Bronx_New_York.html?m=19905

Then I walked over to Johnny’s Reef at 2 City Island Avenue which I had dinner at the first night I visited the last time I came to City Island and the prices had gone up, but the portion sizes were still huge. The fried shrimp platters had not changed one bit. The only problem was the place was just as busy as across the street. It was really mobbed on this sunny warm night.

Johnny’s Reef Restaurant

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Review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g47369-d493743-Reviews-Johnny_s_Reef-Bronx_New_York.html?m=19905

Between the two restaurants, there is the small Belden’s Point Park with views of the Long Island Sound and Long Island in the distance on a sunny day. It was mostly being used by people waiting to get into the restaurants or who had already eaten.

Belden’s Point Park

https://www.nycgovparks.org/parks/city-island-wetlands/history

A close up of the bay point

It was a nice place to relax but the smell of all the frying food and the grease got to be too much. As I left the park I walked around the dining room of Johnny’s Reef and was overwhelmed by all the crowds in the dining room.

The sight of people eating all that fried food really turned me off, so I decided to try a restaurant that had been reviewed on my Dining Around club. In the summer of 2023, they said the Fella’s Bar and Grill was where locals ate and socialized, so I decided to try it. It was closer to the middle point of the island near Bridge Park closer to the northern tip of the island. I was very impressed.

Fella’s Bar & Grill at 522 City Island Avenue

https://www.facebook.com/FellasBarandGrill

Review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g47369-d5842308-Reviews-Fella_s_Bar_Grill-Bronx_New_York.html

The bartender greeted me very warmly and gave me a lot of recommendations for dinner. She mentioned the Chicken Quesadilla and how terrific of it and that the burgers were really good. Then she mentioned how good the pulled pork was and that she had just tasted it. She sold me on that.

The Pulled Pork sandwich with a side of French Fries was excellent. The pork was perfectly cooked, and the sauce was a combination of honey, chilis and tomato for a rich barbecue taste. It was served on a chewy bun with a side of fries that were just out of the fryer (I needed some fried foods), and they were hot and crisp that snapped when you bit into them. I ordered an icy Coke, and it was the perfect meal after a long walk around the island (See my review on TripAdvisor).

While I was eating, I got to talk with the bartender about what was going on the island and about the over-whelming crowds of the restaurants on the southern part of the island. She just laughed and told me that they were really popular with people who lived off the island. I told her I could not understand this as the food was so good here. Then I just watched the game on TV.

The Pulled Pork Sandwich and Fries was fantastic

In the summer of 2023, Fella’s was no longer on the Dine Around Program but a new restaurant named Little Frida’s Eatery at 415 City Island Avenue. I was not sure of what they served at the time but I found out they served homemade Mexican food where the parents cooked and the daughter worked the front of the restaurant. The meal was wonderful.

Little Frida’s Eatery at 415 City Island Avenue

https://littlefridaseateryny.com/

The inside of Little Frida’s Eatery

This brand new restaurant specializes in Mexican and Mexican-American dishes and has a nice selection to choose from. I wanted something different and ordered the Chipotle Chicken Quesadilla on the recommendation of the owners daughter and she was right. It was wonderful.

The quesadilla was really large and could have fed two people and was filled with very spicy meat that she said had been marinading for 24 hours. It was served with fresh lettuce and tomato and a homemade red hot sauce that brough some kick to the dish. I enjoyed my lunch on one of the outside tables and relaxed and enjoyed the sunshine and the breeze.

The Chipotle Chicken Quesadilla with hot sauce and lettuce and tomato was delicious

After I finished my meal, I was walking up City Island Avenue and noticed the large number of cars entering the island over the bridge probably coming for dinner. I walked past the busy Sea Shore Restaurant at 591 City Island Avenue and saw the cars pile into their parking lot and people coming and going.

The Sea Shore Restaurant at 591 City Island Avenue

https://www.facebook.com/Seashorerestaurant/

Review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g47369-d3257156-Reviews-Sea_Shore_Restaurant-Bronx_New_York.html?m=19905

Just past that was the calm of Bridge Park-Catherine Scott Promenade at 549 City Island Avenue. Talk about views of the bay!The sun was just starting to set so there was a beautiful glow to the Long Island Sound, and you could see all the boats sailing by and people waterskiing around the harbor. In the distance, you could see the skyline of lower Manhattan. It has the most dazzling effect of seeing New York from this standpoint.

The Bridge Park-Catherine Scott Promenade at 549 City Island Avenue

https://www.nycgovparks.org/parks/catherine-scott-promenade/events

Catherine Scott Promenade in the summer of 2023

It was like visiting Cape May and crossing the bridge to a small New England fishing village. City Island is the same way escaping to a beach community with a rich shipping and fishing history and showcasing its nautical past.

Bridge Park at 549 City Island Avenue on the northern tip of City Island

The bay on the sunny afternoon with the view of Manhattan in the background.

I had come to the island to search for a witch and why she chose to live here and found my answers in the beautiful homes, wonderful parks and spectacular views of the bay. City Island is unique New York neighborhood where you do not realize that you are still in New York City.

*Be on the lookout for “Dinner at Midnight” when it gets published in the future.

The view from Bridge Park

City Island Street Art

Places to Visit:

City Island, the Bronx

https://www.nycgo.com/boroughs-neighborhoods/the-bronx/city-island

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/City_Island,_Bronx

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g47369-d109881-Reviews-City_Island-Bronx_New_York.html

City Island Nautical Museum/City Island Historical Society

190 Fordham Street

City Island, NY 10464

(718) 885-0008

https://www.cityislandmuseum.org/

https://www.facebook.com/City-Island-Nautical-Museum-120813594596346/

Open: Sunday 1:00pm-4:00pm/Monday-Friday Closed/Saturday 1:00pm-4:00pm

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g47475-d109882-Reviews-City_Island_Nautical_Museum-City_Island_Bronx_New_York.html

My review on VisitingaMuseum.com:

https://wordpress.com/post/visitingamuseum.com/8460

Bridge Park Catherine Scott Promenade

549 City Island Avenue

New York, NY 10464

https://cityislandchamber.org/listings/city-island/bridge-park-catherine-scott-promenade/

Open: Sunday 6:30am-10:00pm

My review on TripAdvisor:

Places to Eat:

Sea Breeze Deli

325 City Island Avenue

Bronx, NY 10464

(718) 885-1263

https://www.facebook.com/seabreezedelicorp/

Open: Sunday-Saturday 6:00am-7:30pm

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g47369-d24884426-Reviews-Sea_Breeze_Deli-Bronx_New_York.html?m=19905

Fella’s Bar & Grill

522 City Island Avenue

Bronx, NY 10464

(718) 885-9898

https://www.facebook.com/FellasBarandGrill

Open: Sunday-Saturday 2:00pm-3:00am

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g47369-d5842308-Reviews-Fella_s_Bar_Grill-Bronx_New_York.html

Little Frida’s Eatery

415 City Island Avenue

Bronx, NY 10464

(718) 885-9656

https://littlefridaseateryny.com/

Open: Sunday-Saturday 8:00am-8:30pm

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowUserReviews-g47369-d26552673-r911645749-Little_Frida_s_Eatery-Bronx_New_York.html?m=19905

Pane Pasta 58 West 8th Street New York, NY 10011 (Closed July 1st, 2025)

Don’t miss the delicious pizzas and pastries at Pane Pasta. Just walking in and looking at the cases will make you hungry.

Pane Pasta at 58 West 8th Street

https://www.instagram.com/panepastanyc/?hl=en

The shop closed July 1st, 2025

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Pane Pasta

58 West 8th Street

New York, NY 10011

(646) 891-0006

Open: Sunday-Saturday 9:00am-9:00pm

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g60763-d20021095-Reviews-Pane_Pasta-New_York_City_New_York.html?m=19905

Pane Pasta at 58 West 8th Street

I found this wonderful combination bakery and gourmet shop when walking home from school one afternoon and exploring Greenwich Village. All the delicious pizzas and pastries in the window lured me in.

I had just eaten my lunch, so I was not that hungry and just wanted a snack. I saw the small doughnuts in the windows called Bombolones, which are yeast doughnuts filled with chocolate or vanilla cream fillings and then rolled in granulated sugar. The small one is $2.15 and the large one was $5.00. Don’t let the price deter you as it is a sweet and filling little dessert. The fresh vanilla cream played beautifully off the sweet dough and sugary topping. Each bite was wonderful, and it was…

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