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Day Three Hundred and Forty-Seven Attending the Mermaid Parade in Coney Island June 21st, 2025(Again June 20th, 2026)

I have to admit that I have had a love affair with Coney Island since my first trip there at four years old. My parents took us there with our cousins in 1974 and I still remember my first Nathan’s hot dog and crinkle cut fries (which still taste the same fifty years later). I still remember riding Deno’s Haunted Mansion ride (I rode it three years ago and it was still the same cheesy ride) and I always remember all the times I have dipped my feet into that polluted beach (I have only swum on it once).

I even wrote my senior paper in both high school and Grad School at NYU on Luna Park with a group of apathetic classmates, some of whom made me do all the work. Yet I still come back for more. I don’t know why I love Coney Island so much.

My graduate paper on Luna Park while at NYU:

I had not attended the Mermaid Parade since the late 1990’s and had wanted to come back but it was one thing after another just to get down here that weekend. I had to plan it like D-Day almost two months in advance. I started my day early I was finishing my walk of the Avenues of lower Chelsea (this is on a separate blog) and all my classwork, housework and bills were already finished, so my day was open.

The poster for the Mermaid Parade this year

The Mermaid Parade in 2025:

I left early for the City and started my day with breakfast at 9th Avenue Deli at 769 Ninth Avenue, one of my favorite late-night places that also makes a wonderful breakfast. It’s been all about the pictures recently when dining out, so I needed a picture of their special French Toast platter. They make it so good.

9th Avenue Gourmet Deli at 769 Ninth Avenue #1

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g60763-d4758581-Reviews-9th_Ave_Gourmet_Deli-New_York_City_New_York.html?m=69573

My review on DiningonaShoeStringinNYC@Wordpress.com:

The French Toast Platter at 9th Avenue Gourmet Deli is the best

Everything I have ever ordered here has been terrific and the prices are so fair. The platters can feed two people easily and their cooks do such a good job especially at breakfast.

They make enough food for two people to share

I figured a large breakfast would keep me going for the rest of the day. They give you four large slices of French Toast, two Scrambled eggs and four pieces of bacon. It was a great breakfast and enjoyed the meal. I was fine through dinner.

I took the Q express outside of Macy’s Herald Square and got down to Coney Island by noon. I had already checked out the parade route and settled by the Cyclone Roller Coaster and the entrance of Luna Park, far away from the subway entrance. The best part of being by Luna Park you got to see the parade as it turned to the Boardwalk. Plus, I wanted to visit the Aquarium later that afternoon.

Looking down Surf Avenue before the parade

Surf Avenue by the Coney Island Museum and other amusements

The entrance of Luna Park on Surf Avenue before

In some ways, the parade reminded me of the Halloween Parade with all its craziness. The energy level and the excitement just build as the parade starts. The initial part of the parade was the police and the fire departments making a big entrance with all the bells and whistles. They brought a lot of excitement to the start of the parade.

The video of the beginning of the parade with the NYPD and the FDNY opening the parade.

Then a group of skaters followed them and got the crowd all excited as they skated past us. The kids were going nuts over this.

The video of everyone was cheering the skaters when they performed down the street.

About twenty minutes later, the opening of the parade started with music, cheers and well wishes. Stupid me had the perfect view and I didn’t turn my camera on while I was filming the beginning of the parade. This video captures the excitement of the parade as it started.

The video of the start of the parade

I was able to catch my mistake and film the rest. Still the excitement built and it was a grand opening of the parade. The performers and drag queens brought so much creativity and excitement to the beginning of the parade.

The video of the opening of the parade

The costumes and make up were amazing.

The parade turning on Tenth Street right by the Cyclone, which was running every ten minutes with people screaming all the time.

The costumes and floats gave the parade a Carnival atmosphere.

The costumes were fantastic

Everyone really got into it.

Some revelers got really creative

All the floats were so full of energy and the music was great!

Revelers dancing on the floats

The parade goers dancing by the floats were having such a good time on this beautiful day

Mermaids dancing down Surf Avenue

The Jellyfish on display

The Jellyfish dance on Surf Avenue was so much fun.

All I could think about was Shirley Temple singing the “Codfish Ball” when she was a toddler. Funny enough, I think Shirley Temple would have loved this parade.

“At the Cod Fish Ball” with Shirley Temple

The parade continued on with all sorts of dance teams, drum bands and costumed people walking down Surf Avenue. The crowds really swelled as the parade went on and it was tough to maneuver for elbow room.

By the middle of the parade, the crowds kept growing.

The costumes got more and more elaborate. I did not remember the parade like this but then a lot has changed in thirty years. You could tell that people put a lot of thought into their outfits.

A purple octopus leading assorted sea creatures down Surf Avenue

A sea of mermaids

The NY Aquarium had an interesting float

Followed by an assortment of fish

The video of one of the drum lines. It looked like they were having so much fun.

More mermaids walking down the street

Greeting the parade goers

Performances with the Hula Hoop

Jugglers

More mermaids walking down the street

The mermaids greeting parade goers

More bands and costumes

The floats got very elaborate

A video of the puppets joining the parade and led by the L Train band. This reminded me so much of the Halloween Parade in the Village on Halloween Night. It was our version of Mardi Gras!

Some of the Mermaid costumes were so creative

Whole families really dressed up for this

Towards the end of the parade, the energy just got bigger as the party continued to the Boardwalk.

The last of the floats coming down Surf Avenue

This video of the drum line led us down the Surf Avenue and up to the Boardwalk for the ‘Unlocking of the Sea’ ceremony.

The floats had to turn off on Surf Avenue and 12th Street, but the marchers made their way to the Boardwalk and the partying and music continued to make its way down to the Parachute Drop where the ‘Unlocking of the Sea’ would take place. This would open the beaches for the Summer Season (the Summer Equinox was the day before)

I had enough time to grab a Pineapple-Lime ice, and it was the best $5.00 I spent my money on. It cooled me inside and out. These ices vendors have the best desserts!

The parade continued down the Boardwalk to the beach

A video of these festive Mermaids, ‘The Tail Shakers’, who led the way down the Boardwalk who energized the crowds. This is when you have to stop letting the ills of the world get you down and just have fun! With all the craziness going on in the world this was such a fun distraction. Our part of the world was having so much fun. ‘1999’ was such an ironic song for this moment!

The parade led to the Parachute Drop and the Steeplechase Pier where the rest of the service took place at 4:00pm. The ‘Unlocking of the Sea’ was an old tradition on Coney Island. It was to open the beaches at the beginning of the Summer and since the Solstice was the night before this was the first full day of summer. There are old pictures had King Neptune and Miss Coney Island opening the beaches in Coney Island’s past. All I know is that the lifeguard had to keep shooing the crowds away as the excitement built at the cermony.

The key to ‘Unlock the Beaches’

The key and the bands approaching the sea

The Key Ceremony led by the bands

The ‘Sea Unlocking’ at the beach with the beach bathing beauties.

The ceremony was a mob scene and as soon as the ‘unlocking’ was over the crowds started to disperse. This was much to the relief of the poor lifeguard, who must have been glad we were gone.

After the ceremony was over, I walked around Coney Island to get something to eat. Talk about crowded! There were lines everywhere and forget about Nathan’s. The lines were still thirty deep in every direction. Even the little pizzeria by the subway jacked all their prices up and a pizzeria on Neptune Avenue would not let you eat inside. I did not want to be ripped off that afternoon for a meal. I was going to stop in Chinatown on the way back into Manhattan, but I wanted to stay in Coney Island longer, so I explored beyond the area off the Boardwalk.

I finally found a new Chinese restaurant that opened a block from the beach on the Coney Island shopping strip on Neptune Avenue called Famous Rotisserie & Grill at 1525 Mermaid Avenue.

Walking around the Midway trying to find something to eat but every place was packed with people or the prices had been inflated.

Famous Rotisserie & Grill at 1525 Mermaid Avenue was once a Spanish Chicken restaurant

https://www.famousrotisseriebrooklyn.com/

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com.sg/Restaurant_Review-g60827-d26886603-Reviews-Famous_Rotisserie_Grill-Brooklyn_New_York.html?m=69573

I had a combination platter of their version of Lemon Chicken and Pork Fried rice. The food was good, and the portion size was large. It fit what I was looking for that afternoon (after I had finished, I wished I had gone to Chinatown).

The Lemon Chicken and Pork Fried Rice combination platter

The food was good and they give you a nice portion size for $10.00.

The inside of the restaurant

Their current menu and prices

The one thing that stood out about this late lunch/early dinner was the service. The woman who ran this restaurant was so friendly and accommodating to her customers I was really amazed by it. She catered more to the local resident than to tourist trade.

After lunch was over, I took one more walk around the amusement area before I left for the day. The crowds were still all over the place from the restaurants to the boardwalk. Between the parade, the beach and the weather, it was wall to wall people everywhere. By this point the Aquarium had closed.

While walking through Deno’s Wonder Wheel Park, I came across the small museum, the Coney Island History Project at 3059 West 12th Street, which is inside the park. This small gallery tells the history of the development of Coney Island as an amusement area. From its development to its decline to its current rebirth, the area has had so many ups and downs.

The Coney Island Project at 3059 West 12th Street

https://www.coneyislandhistory.org/

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowUserReviews-g60763-d4777489-r1014119112-Coney_Island_History_Project_Walking_Tour-New_York_City_New_York.html?m=19905

My review in VisitingaMuseum.com:

This interesting little gallery/museum tells the stories of various times of Coney Island’s history. The museum displays a variety of artifacts in different points of the island’s history (I have attached several videos that will best explain each section of the museum and of the island’s history).

The outside display of Coney Island in its heyday in the early 1940’s

The front gallery with amusement artifacts

These pieces of former rides show the creativity of Coney Island rides and attractions. This is the nostalgia that visitors remember.

The history of Steeplechase Park, the second major amusement park after Sea Lion Park

Steeplechase Park of the past, the Steeplechase ride for which the park was named after

The history of Steeplechase Park and Luna Park of the past

Coney Island of the 1970’s and decline of the island

This video from the 1970’s contains many of the artifacts that the museum now has on display

The video from the movie “The Warriors” which what many thought Coney Island had turned into in the 1970’s.

Many thought the island of the movie ‘The Warriors’ in the 1970’s and that was not far off but like the rest of New York City, it keeps morphing and changing. It keeps surprising you. Trust me, it is not a Disney theme park.

The history of Deno’s Wonder Wheel Park

The Miss Coney Island robot that dances.

Outside of the museum, there were murals on the history of Deno’s Wonder Wheel Park.

The history of the park

The map of the park

As I left the island around 6:30pm, it was time to go. The Freak Bar at Coney Island USA was in full force with revelers after the parade. It looked like everyone was having a good time.

The Coney Island USA Freak Bar sign

https://www.coneyisland.com/freakbar

https://www.facebook.com/freakbarconeyisland/

Review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g60827-d555621-Reviews-The_Coney_Island_Museum-Brooklyn_New_York.html

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g60827-d3431494-Reviews-Coney_Island_Circus_Sideshow-Brooklyn_New_York.html

I thought this was clever

I took one last walk down the Boardwalk at twilight. Coney Island is a pretty amazing place. It still has complexities and wonders. It can be seen from many different aspects. I see the wonder that generations have seen here. Coney Island is not just a place, it’s an idea of the mid and an imagine. While it might never reach the heights it did before the Dreamland Fire of 1911, each generation has their Coney Island memories. I know I do.

Coney Island Boardwalk at the end of the day

CBS This Morning: ‘The People’s Playground’

The day was a lot of fun, and you have to experience Coney Island once in your life if you are from out of town.

The Mermaid Parade in 2026:

Arriving at Surf Avenue subway

I returned in 2026 for the parade again and what a spectacularly sunny and warm day for a parade. When I first got there, there was no one along Surf Avenue but within a half hour of the parade, the whole place was packed. I learned from the previous year, the best place to view the parade is right in front of the Cyclone by the entrance of Luna Park where the parade turns off. You get the best pictures from this location.

Arriving on Surf Avenue the morning of the Mermaid Parade

The start of the parade on Surf Avenue

The opening of the parade with a parade of antique cars and mermaids

A Model T Ford at the start of the parade

The opening of the parade is always exciting

A sea of mermaids walking down Surf Avenue

Mermaids taking over Surf Avenue

A pink mermaid showing off her stuff

Elvis Mermaid

Golden Mermaid

The creativity of the costumes is incredible

Summers and dancers

The guy from the Coney Island Freak Show

Coney Island Polar Bear Club

Mermaids wth little mermaid

Pink Mermaid and her court

Family of mermaids

Deep sea fishing in gold lame

Under water green mermaid

String Ray float

Toy soldier mermaid

The band plays on

The silver mermaid

A female sea monster

Playful crabs

Parade Day coming down Surf Avenue on a sunny afternoon

Aquaman

Sea monster balloon

Sea monster queen

The International High School float

Sea creature with the marching band

For lunch that afternoon, I had to get away from the crowds and Nathan’s both on the Boardwalk and on Surf Avenue were mobbed so I went to Pizza on the Run by the subway station which is a block away.

Pizza on the Run at 2914 Stillwell Avenue

https://places.singleplatform.com/on-the-run-pizza/menu

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowUserReviews-g60827-d21047340-r1065138736-Pizza_On_The_Run-Brooklyn_New_York.html?m=19905

The pizza case at Pizza on the Run

My lunch, a Grandma Sicilian slice, Garlic Twist and a Pepsi

I have eaten at Pizza on the Run a few times when Nathan’s was packed from events and the food here is wonderful. There is no place to eat but you can take your food and enjoy it on the many of the Boardwalk seats.

The Grandma slice was delicious

The delicious Garlic Twists

After lunch, I went back to watching the remainder of the parade. The parade as it finished even more creative costumes were displayed and the floats were filled with vibrant music and independent bands. People really brough their creative to the parade and made it the special event it was that morning and afternoon. The party continued on the Boardwalk as the costumed characters were routed south down the Boardwalk.

Metro Card man

The Coney Island Bayou at the end of the parade

The Octopus float that ended the parade

After the parade on Surf Avenue was over, I took a long walk on the beach to cool my feet. While the water at Coney Island is sketchy, it felt wonderful as the small waves passed under my feet. The cool water felt wonderful after a long week of walking around the City.

After my late lunch, I worked it off with a long walk on the beach

In the background, I could hear the band from the parade playing on the beach for the ‘unlocking of the sea’ ceremony. By the time I got there, they were leaving the beach so I followed the crowds back to the Boardwalk. It was packed.

I also took a long walk on the Boardwalk, weaving through crowds of people who were enjoying their afternoon.

After the ceremonies and parade were all over, I spent the rest of the afternoon walking around the Boardwalk and weaved through businesses. The lines never stopped, they never went down at Nathan’s the whole time I was there, all the restaurants on the Boardwalk were full of lines and even the bars were packed. It looked like no one wanted to go home.

At the end of the evening, I stopped in Chinatown for a quick snack. I stopped at Jin Wen Dumplings on Henry Street, who makes the best Pork and Chive Fried Dumplings. The best part was that the line was small.

Jin Wen Dumplings at 25B Henry Street

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g60763-d5451975-Reviews-Dumplings-New_York_City_New_York.html?m=19905

My review on DiningonaShoeStringinNYC@Wordpress.com:

The best Fried Dumplings

For $5.00, they give you more than ten dumplings that are perfectly cooked and with some soy sauce, make the best meal. They are delicious.

The Fried Pork and Chive Dumplings

I sat in the park around the corner from the restaurant, eating dinner, watching kids play basketball and ride their scooters around the park while the sun was going down. Talk about the perfect evening to conclude the perfect day.

Chinatown at twilight at the end of a wonderful day

Demarest Family Cemetery 239 Ramapo Valley Road Oakland, NJ 07436

Demarest Family Cemetery

239 Ramapo Valley Road

Oakland, NJ 07436

https://www.findagrave.com/cemetery/1617471/demarest-family-cemetery

https://sites.rootsweb.com/~njbergen/cemetery.html

Open: During the hours of the Nursery that surrounds it.

My review on TripAdvisor:

The Demarest Family Cemetery sits on a small embankment surrounded by trees and a cement island. You can only access it from one side and there is no stairs. Totally forgotten burial site.

The fencing and locked door with a rusty lock surrounds the cemetery. There is no way to access it. I was able to walk up the cement embankment and was able to walk around the fence. The trees have taken over the cemetery and have knocked over the tombstones.

You can see some of the fallen tombstones from neglect at the fence

The growth surrounding the burial site

Some of the historic tombstones are still standing like this one of the burial sites of Lettya Ann Demarest who was born in 1830. She had inherited the house in 1863.

Most of the historic tombstones have fallen down

The fallen and forgotten tombstones have growth surrounding them.

The historic Demarest homestead was around the corner from the nursery. The house had been in the family for 194 years almost five generations.

The family homestead still exists up the road around the corner from the nursery. This is the historical sign outside the sign. The Demarest family home in Oakland:

The Demarest family home

A view from the front of the Demarest family home

This tiny historical and very forgotten and neglected cemetery was once part of this branch of the Demarest family. The small cemetery sits on a small hill not far from the house. Once the farm was sold off and the town grew around it, this small cemetery sits still in its original spot in the middle of nursery.

When I talked with one of the workers there, he said the owner was very careful to built around it and let it intact. He also said that no one seems to own it. It is the final resting place of James S. Demarest, who fought in the Revolutionary War.

With all the growth, I could not find it. It has been lost to time.

Hopper-Zabriskie Family Cemetery First Street Ho Ho Kus, NJ 07423

Hopper-Zabriskie Family Cemetery

First Street

Ho Ho Kus, NJ. 07423

(201) 652-4400

https://www.hhkborough.com/home/hopper-zabriskie-family-cemetery

https://www.atlasobscura.com/places/hopperzabriskie-cemetery

https://www.findagrave.com/cemetery/2303434/zabriskie-cemetery

Open: Sunday through Saturday Dawn to Dusk

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Profile/R4960NKjustinw/mediabatch/13643018?m=19905

The entrance to the Zabriskie-Hopper Cemetery

The History of the Cemetery:

(from the Borough of Ho Ho Kus, NJ website)

It is a family cemetery started before 1792 on land originally owned by Abraham Hopper. The Hopper family was the first to settle Ho-Ho-Kus, then known as Hoppertown. Many Dutch families also settled the area including the Zabriskie, Ackerman, Blauvelt, Bamper, Banta, and Terhune families. Most were members of the Old Paramus Reformed Church nearby.

While family members were commonly interred in the church graveyard, some chose to bury family members in small local plots closer to their residences. Such was the case with the Ackermans who had a plot on the northeast side of town near the Saddle River, and the Hopper and Zabskie families who were buried in the small plot in Hoppertown near the Ho-Ho-Kus brook.

The small cemetery

The historic sign

The original family cemetery of the Hopper family when the original name of the area was ‘Hoppertown’ for the family whose land dominated the area. While some would bury their loved ones at the family church’s graveyards, some preferred their loved ones closer and would be buried on the family farm. Some families picked the highest point, usually a small hill that would over look the land. This particular cemetery is located in a small cove at the bend of the road.

This small historical cemetery is another example of history lost in time. The generations of distant family members no longer care for this historical spots and they were left for the elements. This cemetery was cared for by Veterans of the Wars and the Boy Scouts who put a lot of care in it. Now it is under the Borough of Ho Ho Kus, NJ.

The history of the cemetery

The history of the Zabriskie family

The family plot map of the tombstones.

The small family burial plot common to farms in Bergen County at that time.

Who is buried here:

(From the Borough of Ho Ho Kus, NJ website)

There were a number of descendants from the Hopper and Zabriskie families who were interred in the small cemetery between 1792 and 1867. In 1910, an archivist named John Neafie from New York City cataloged the names on the headstones and provided a copy to the Bergen County Historical Society. Some of those appearing in this catalog included:

  • Garret Hopper, died Feb.17, 1792, age 69 years
  • Elsey Hopper, wife of Garret Hopper, died March 8, 1816, age 89 years
  • Mary Zabriskie, wife of Henry Zabriskie, died June 3, 1821, age 69 years
  • Francis W. Perry, wife of James H. Perry Esq. and daughter of H. and Sally Zabriskie, born June 25, 1814, died Nov. 27, 1834
  • Henry Zabriskie, died Feb.23, 1839, 22 years
  • Henry H. Zabriskie, died Feb. 27,1832, age 46 years
  • Sally Zabriskie, wife of H.H. Zabriskie, died May 11, 1829, age 41 years
  • Garret H. Zabriskie, died Aug. 6, 1867, age 79 years
  • Caty Van Voorhase, wife of Garret H. Zabriskie, died Nov. 6, 1833, age 41 years
  • Garret Zabriskie, son of Henry and Lavinia Banta, died Oct. 16, 1832, age 4 years
  • Ann Bamper, wife of Jacob Bamper, died Feb. 26, 1844, age 90 years
  • C.I.Z. (probably refers to Casparis, son of Mary Zabriskie)

The grave of Henry Zabriskie

The graves Henry and Garrett Zabriske

The graves Garrett Zabriske and Francis Perry

The grave of Caty Van Voorhase

The grave of Sally Zabriskie

The grave of Francis Perry

The cemetery is a testament to the family and their love of the land they owned.

The History of the Hopper and Zabriskie families in the area:

(From the Borough of Ho Ho Kus, NJ website)

The Hopper’s owned homesteads in the center of town on both sides of the brook and operated a grist mill. During the American Revolution, they were committed to the patriot cause and served with the Bergen County Militia. The British made several raids into Hoppertown during the war while foraging for military stores, farm animals, and other goods. One notable siege took place at Hoppertown on April 16, 1780. John J. Hopper was seriously wounded. His home and those of his brothers were burned down. The grist mill on the brook was also destroyed. The Zabriskie family would later acquire and occupy the original Hopper residence which was placed under siege. The building is now known as the Ho-Ho-Kus Inn & Tavern. Materials from John Hopper’s original house razed during the raid are believed to be incorporated into the foundation of the inn.

Around 1830, John J. Zabriskie took up residence in the former Hopper home, which became known as the Mansion House. The Zabriskie’s owned several farms and buildings nearby and built a dam and mill on the brook. The Zabriskie family also acquired the Hopper family cemetery on the hillside adjacent to the mill. When the first Zabriskie mill dam breached in 1862, John Jacob would build a much grander dam out of brownstone blocks to create Sylvan Lake while at the same time expanding cotton mill operations.

Hopper Farm Family Cemetery Lexington Lane Oakland, NJ 07436

The Hopper Family Farm Cemetery

Lexington Lane

Oakland, NJ 07436

https://www.findagrave.com/cemetery/2247921/hopper-farm-family-cemetery

https://ldsgenealogy.com/NJ/Bergen-County-Cemetery-Records.htm

Open: Dawn to Dusk

My review on TripAdvisor:

The Hopper Farm Family Cemetery is a reminder of what happens when time passes you by and the world changes around you. I went in search for the grave of Andrew Hopper, a veteran of the Revolutionary War. I could not find it.

This historic cemetery is hidden from the road behind two large homes on a tiny hill in the back woods. The only way to access the cemetery is to walk down the utility road off the main road, walk through the woods and walk up through the bush to back of two families back yards.

You can tell by the rotting fallen fence that this cemetery was once enclosed but the fence has since fallen and the cemetery in disarray. Still there is a quiet elegance to it.

The cemetery is in desperate need of clean up and repair as tombstones are broken, fallen and discolored.

Some of the family tombstones have fallen. Still you can see members of the Hopper and Demarest families buried here.

Members of the Vanderbryck family Maryann and Rachel

The grave of David Hopper

The grave of Susan Storms, wife of one of the family members buried here.

The grave of Peter Bogart, a member of the extended family

One of the broken tombstones that I could not read

Another tombstone in loving memory of a name I could not read

The broken stone of Fredrick Storms grave

The family cemetery sits quiet and neglected in the woods. Most of the tombstones broken and discolored and hard to read.

I took one last look as I walked down the hill and said a prayer to these forgotten people. One what must have once been the family farm sits a development of extremely large and well maintained McMansions. This is the irony of this once prominent family.

The family buried at this cemetery:

(Bergen County Genealogical Society website)

Copied July 4, 1913, By John Neafie New York City.

1. Abraham Verbryck, d. Jan. 8, 1843 ae. 63-11-8.
2. John P. Ackerman, d. Feb. 24-1829 ae. 34-1-4.
3. Rachel, wife of John P. Ackerman, d. Oct. 4,1844
ae. 49-11-22.
4. Martha Ann, d. Apr. 6, 1835 ae. 1 yr. 8 da.
5. Martha Ann, d. Feb. 5, 1837 ae. 2 mos. 7 da.
6. Rachel Ann, d. July 12,1838 ae. 6 mos.
Children of
Abraham and
Susan Hopper.
7. Peter G. Bogert d. 5 Dec. 1859 ae. 76-6-16.
8. Mary his wife d. 5 April 1866 ae. 72-6-21.
9. David Berthoif d. 8 Jan. 1851 ae. 85-2-29.
10. Catharine Storms his wife d. 19 June 1864 ae. 87-2-5.
11. Peter, son of Stephen D. and Eliza Berthoif, d. 19 Nov.1843
ae. 1-7-2.
12. Elizer L. Ramsey (My Mother), wife of Stephen D. Bertholf
d. 18 Dec. 1876 ae. 56-7-5.
13. Stephen S. Berthoif (Brother), d. 28 Oct. 1875
ae. 21-11-17.(same stone as above.)
14. Frederick Storms d. 20 Feb. 1826 in 54th yr.
15. Alice, widow of above, d. 6 Jan. 1859, ae. 81-6-25.
16. John, son of Frederick and Alice Storms d. 29 Apr. 1852
ae. 37-7-10.
17. Susan B. Storms, wf. of Stites Miller d. at San Francisco,
Cal. 16 Dec. 1863 ae. 60 y.
18. Eliza, wf. of Philip Vantassel d. 10 Sept. 1830
ae. 29 y.21 d.
19. Samuel V. Codington b. 19 Jan. 1824 d. 30 Oct. 1834.
20. Mary Ann Verbryck, wf. of William Codington b. 9 Sept.1802
d. 17 Feb. 1835.
21. Samuel Verbryck b. 15 Nov. 1780 d. 16 June 1847.
22. Rachel his wife b. 5 Aug. 1778 d. 13 Dec. 1864.
23. Conrod Lines d. 20 Dec. 1839 ae. 66-2-8 (footstone C. L.)
24. Garret G., son of Philip and Jane Hopper, d. 17 Apr. 1833
ae. 15 mos.
25. Rachel Bogert d. 22 Oct. 1793 ae. 70 y. 22 d.
widow of Lucas Bogert.
26. Rachel dau. of Lucas Bogert d. 21 Feb. 1791 ae. 30-10-4.
27. Lucas Bogert d. 2 Sept. 1777 ae. 57 y. 4 m.
28. Maria Mandevil, wf. of Steven Bartolf, b. 26 May 1736
d.22 Feb. 1813 ae. 76-8-27.
29. Aaron G. son of Patrick and Sarah M. Cronk d. 25 Nov.1861
ae. 6 m. 29 d.

Hopper Family Burial Ground Spottswood Road Glen Rock, NJ 07452

Hopper Family Burial Ground

Spottswood Road

Glen Rock, NJ 07452

https://www.findagrave.com/cemetery/1593990/hopper-family-burying-ground

https://www.hmdb.org/m.asp?m=36966

Open: Dawn to Dusk

My review on TripAdvisor:

The Hopper Family Burial Ground

The Hopper Family Burial Ground sign

The Hopper family burial ground once sat between two branches of the Hopper family farms and was the resting place for members of both extended families.

The graves date back to before the Revolutionary War to the late 1800’s. It now sits between the suburban neighborhood in Glen Rock, NJ and one of the town’s elementary schools.

The grave of Elizabeth Alyea, the last person to be buried here in 1867

The grave of John Van Embury, whose wife was a member of the Demarest family.

The grave of Jess Demarest mostly is covered

These graves of the Hopper family were covered by grass.

The grave of John Hopper

Raham Hopper and his wife, Maria Goetschius graves

The Hopper family graves

The grave of Henry Hopper

The John Hopper family grave

https://www.glenrockhistory.org/post/2017/06/17/john-a-hopper-and-the-civil-war

Except for the last person to be buried here in 1876, all the tombstones were laid flat. Most have been overgrown by weeds and grass.

No one has been maintaining this cemetery or edging the tombstones so the cemetery is hard to study. Most of the graves were grown over or in bad shape.

The cemetery needs some work and a little TLC but still a reminder of the important part of our Country’s history.

Those buried in the Hopper Cemetery:

(Genealogical Society of Bergen County website)

NameDate of DeathAge at DeathNotes
Anne HopperFeb 2, 183988y, 3m, 27d
Jacob DemarestDec 22, 183211y, 3mSon of James & Ann Demarest
Peter HopperAug 28, 181873y, 6m, 26d
John VanEmburghJuly 13, 185228ySon of James J. and Anna Demarest
Maria HopperMar 30, 18514y, 6m, 13dDaughter of Garret H and Eliza Hopper
Theunis HopperJuly 29, 18544yChild of Garret H. And Eliza Hopper
Eliza SpearMar 5, 1897born Feb 7, 1814Wife of Garret H. Hopper
James J. DemarestAug 6, 184956y, 7m, 2d
Henry J. HopperFeb 5, 184942y, 1m, 22d
Sophia CourterMar 4, 186084y, 6m, 16dwife of Aaron Courter
Aaron CourterFeb 28, 186285y, 2m, 5d
Caroline HopperOct 25, 189778y, 1m, 28d
Maria GoetschiusJune 15, 188979y, 2m, 12dwife of Abraham H. Hopper
Garret H. HopperJan 10, 187060y, 1m, 8d
Peter HopperMar 3, 187973y, 4m
Ann HopperDec 27, 188874y, 7m, 17d
Henry G. HopperJune 22, 185924y, 3m, 13d
Dorcas AckermanAug 11, 186692y, 11mwife of Garret P. Hopper
John A. HopperMay 25, 186322y, 6m, 14dCivil War casualty
Henry P. HopperMar 28, 187085y, 11m
Abraham HopperMar 20, 185648y, 6m
Elizabeth Ann HopperMar 10, 186819y, 7m, 17d
Garret J. HopperSep 12, 187655y, 1m, 23d
Eliza WesterveltOct 22, 189468y, 8m, 22dwife of Garret J. Hopper
Garret P. HopperMay 12, 185282y, 3m, 13d
Albert J. HopperNov 5, 181838y, 11m, 28d
Elizabeth AckermanJan 17, 186487y, 1m, 8dwife of Henry P. Hopper
Jacob DemarestApr 23, 182965y, 8m, 27d
John J. LydeckerAug 14, 184652y, 10m, 4d
Sarah M. HopperJune 2, 181930y, 12m, 12dWife of James Williams
John H. HopperAug 7, 185971y, 2m, 7d
Mary VoorhisApr 7, 187084y, 1m, 20dwife of John H. Hopper
Clarence WilliamsJuly 19, 18732 monthsSon of James and Sarah Williams
BabyMay 4. 18282 monthsSon of Garrett and Jemime VanWagoner
Catherine HopperAug 9, 183840y, 11m, 12dwife of John J. Lydecker
Kacia DemarestAug 4, 184976y, 3m, 27d
Ann VanEmburghApr 19, 183335y, 10m, 14dwife of James Demarest

My Life as a Fireman: Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association Annual June Barbecue and Entertainment June 14th, 2025

Under the direction of Chef Prince of the NJ State Firemen’s Home and our member, NJ Firemen’s Association President Bob Ordway, they cooked up a feast for the residents, their guests and members and families.

NJ State Firemen’s Association President and Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association member Bob Ordway manning the grill.

Chef Prince of the NJ State Firemen’s Home cooking up a storm.

The wonderful lunch that everyone enjoyed

Our entertainment that afternoon was singer Kelly Carpenter, who had entertained at many of our functions in the past. She sang popular show tunes, rock hits and country tunes.

Singer Kelly Carpenter entertaining everyone

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Sautjes Tave’s Begraven Ground Cemetery Bogart Road & Everett Road Demarest, NJ 07627

Sautjes Tave’s Begraven Ground Cemetery

Bogart Road & Everett Road

Demarest, NJ 07627

(732) 260-7877

https://www.revolutionarywarnewjersey.com/new_jersey_revolutionary_war_sites/towns/demarest_nj_revolutionary_war_sites.htm

https://www.findagrave.com/cemetery/1586040/sautjes-taves-begraven-ground

https://www.hmdb.org/m.asp?m=63548

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g46390-d33256525-Reviews-Sautjes_Tave_s_Begraven_Ground_Cemetery-Demarest_New_Jersey.html

The Sautjes Tave Begraven Ground Cemetery is an example of an early Dutch Cemetery of some of the first Colonists in Bergen County with some families arriving in the early 1600’s .

The entrance to the Sautjes Tave Begraven Ground Cemetery in Demarest, NJ

The historic sign at the entrance placed by the David Demarest Chapter of the Daughters of the American Revolution

The inside of the historic cemetery

These early families once owned farms under royal patents of hundreds of acres and these would be passed down from generation to generation. These small family cemeteries were once located on the edge of family land that have since been replaced by modern suburbs. This is now in the middle of a traffic circle surrounded by homes. The cemetery is a wonderful shape and is nicely landscaped.

The cemetery from the south side

Generations of a Bogarts, Blauvelts, Haring, Demarest, Du Bois, Van Scivan and other prominent families all inter married into each family were buried here.

The Bogart-Bauvelt family plot

The Bogart-Blauvelt family plot

The Demarest family plot

The Demarest-Haring family plot

The Ann Marie Demarest grave

The Cornelius Demarest grave site, a Revolutionary War veteran

Patriot Douwe Talema, who was killed by the Tories during the Revolutionary War

The Daniel Van Scivan grave, another Revolutionary War veteran

The Haring Family plot

The Haring family plot

The James Haring grave

The Sophia Haring grave

The Du Bois family plot

The Cemetery view from the southern corner

My video of Touring the Cemetery and its historic roots:

My tour of the cemetery

Leaving the cemetery you can see the landscaping offers these families privacy in both life and death.

After the tour of the cemetery, I explored Downtown Demarest, NJ and discovered a beautiful little town with small local stores and a beautiful set of parks surround the streams and the train station just off the downtown.

The town of Demarest Veteran’s display

The town of Demarest has its own rich beauty and you can see this by visiting its Downtown area and its parks.

The breathtaking Duck Pond Park attracted a lot of painters who set their easels by the banks of the streams.

The Duck Pond is really beautiful

They also have a really nice railroad terminal that is now a senior center

The historic Demarest Railroad Station

This wonderful community has so many wonderful attributes.

Crooked Pond Cemetery 1115 Franklin Lakes Road Franklin Lakes, NJ 07417

Crooked Pond Cemetery

1115 Franklin Lakes Road

Franklin Lakes, NJ 07417

https://www.franklinlakes.org/crookedpondcemetery

https://www.findagrave.com/cemetery/1769184/crooked-pond-cemetery

https://www.namesinstone.com/ViewMap.aspx?cemeteryId=399006

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Profile/R4960NKjustinw/mediabatch/13620090?m=19905

This mysterious little cemetery sits on a bluff overlooking Crooked Pond in Franklin Lakes, NJ. Unless you are looking for it, it is difficult to find as there are no markers or historical signs to guide you to the path.

You have to park the car across the street, walk across a dangerous road and you come across this small set of stairs that leads to the cemetery. In the pictures online it always looks so well maintained but the afternoon I was there, it had been over grown.

This set of stairs is hidden by the trees and bushes. This leads to the cemetery

This is another example of a small family cemetery

The History of the Cemetery:

(From the Borough of Franklin Lakes, NJ website-Written by Colin Knight)

Generations of Ackerman, Van Winkle, Romaine and other Dutch families are interred on top of the steep hill overlooking the serene body of water originally known as Hopper’s Pond. Owing to the geography, the local Dutch Reformed congregation assumed the name Ponds Reformed Church and established themselves in the Ramapo Valley in 1710. The early history of the Church recalls several changes in location and according to oral tradition services were held in a log cabin on the north side of the pond not far from the burial ground. 

The other end of this small plot

The resting spot sits on a bluff overlooking Crooks pond

The view of the cemetery to the pond below

Among the tombstones are the graves of many members of troops that served in the Revolutionary War and the War of 1812.

We owe a lot to these Veterans who put their lives on the line for us in the War years. These men and their families helped shape not just the foundation of Bergen County but of the Country as well. These tombstones are of some of the men who fought in the Revolutionary War.

The grave of Gerrit Van Cleve

The grave of Joseph Van Cleve

The grave of Veteran Simeon Van Winkle

These brave soldiers fought in the Revolutionary War with some of their tombstones marker as veterans as others are not.

The graves face Crooks Pond

The tombstone of Veteran Samuel Romine

Samuel Romine’s original tombstone

The Veterans of the Crooked Pond Cemetery:

(From the Borough of Franklin Lakes website-Written by Colin Knight)

The Daughters of the American Revolution stepped up and have been working to restore the cemetery to it’s rightful state. 20 headstones have been restored, and recently, the Veteran’s Administration installed two new headstones for Revolutionary War veteran Samuel Romine and another for War of 1812 veteran Ralph Benjamin Romaine. Crooked Pond Cemetery has fourteen Veterans interred within its bounds, ten from the Revolutionary War, two from the War of 1812, and two who served in the Civil War.

An incomplete list of veterans buried here are John Ackerman; John Folley and Elias Folley; Samuel Romine, Benjamin Romine, and Ralph Romaine; Gerrit Van Cleve and Joseph Van Cleve; Corniess Van Houten, Hendrick Van Houten, and Roeloff Van Houten; and Simeon Van Winkle and Epson Van Winkel.

Frelinghuysen Arboretum 53 East Hanover Avenue Morristown, NJ 07962

The gardens in bloom in the Spring of 2025

The flowers on the beds in full bloom

The pathways around the gift shop and Education Center.

The statuary around the gardens

The flowers around the old stables area

Voorhis-Lozier-Demarest Family Burial Ground Genther Avenue Oradell, NJ 07649

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowUserReviews-g46706-d33246110-r1011336224-Voorhis_Family_Burial_Grounds-Oradell_New_Jersey.html?m=19905

The historic sign of the Voorhis Burying Ground

The inside of the Voorhis Burial Ground

What is sad about these small family cemeteries is that I am sure that the families never thought to the future when the land would be sold off and the family would move on. The Voorhis and Demarest names still dot the landscape of Bergen County but these tiny plots are lost to the current generations.

The gravesite of Lucas Van Voorhis

The grave of Mary Demarest, who was the wife of James