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My Life as a Fireman: The Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association Lunch and Christmas Party December 5th, 2025

The weather had gotten cooler and Halloween was behind us. The smell of pine is in the air and it seems the holiday decorations are coming out quicker and quicker even before Halloween is over. It was time for the members of the Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association to host our annual Christmas lunch and resident party at the NJ State Firemen’s Home in Boonton, NJ. This is our most popular party of the year and an event that the residents of the home look forward to every year.

The NJ State Firemen’s Home Association in Boonton, NJ decorated for Christmas

The home was decorated so festively and put everyone in the mood for this afternoon. Is it what the holidays are all about?

The decorations around the home to create a festive environment

The holiday cheer around the building

In December our organization does not have a formal meeting but rather a members lunch shared by both the members and the staff so that we all could share in the successes we had this year. It was a productive and profitable year of fundraising and that will help us sponsor more programming at the home for our fellow firefighters who reside here.

This afternoon buffet is a way for members and their family and for the hardworking staff at the home to know how much we care for all their love and support of the residents who live here. None of us could do what we do without them.

Our buffet luncheon cooked by the Home’s in-house chef Prince

The delicious sandwiches and salads at lunch

After lunch was over, we joined the residents in the main recreation room for entertainment and our visit from Santa.

The recreation room decorated for the holidays

Our DJ and Master of Ceremony for the event, BCFHA member John McLoghlin was who was joined with the musical talents of member, Jerry Naylis’s granddaughters and resident favorite, Gigi in an afternoon of Christmas carols and songs.

Entertainer Gigi with Master of Ceremony BCFHA member John McLoghlin

Jerry Naylis’s granddaughters are a big favorite with the residents

Accompanied by their mother on the piano, it was a festive afternoon of songs and hymns

The girls singing “Rudolf the Red Nosed Reindeer”

The girls singing “Walking in a Winterland”

The girls singing “Silent Night”

The girls singing “We wish you a Merry Christmas”

After the girls performance, entertainer Gigi rocked the room with a series of popular Christmas songs and warm holiday wishes to all the residents and their family members in the audience.

Gigi performing for the residents

In the middle of the concert, we had a quick pause as a very special visitor arrived from the North Pole as Santa led our break in the concert for gift gifting.

Santa arrived to help us distribute gifts to the residents

As the afternoon rolled to a close, we were treated by both Gigi and Santa a sing a long of ‘I’m dreaming of a White Christmas’.

The sing a long lead by Gigi and Santa with the song “I’m Dreaming of a White Christmas”

All good things come to an end plus Santa had to make his trip back to the North Pole and the afternoon wrapped up. The membership of the Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association took our annual group picture. I couldn’t ask for a greater group of men who are so dedicated to making the lives of our Brothers at the home so comfortable. We never want to forget the firefighters who came before us and set the tone for the Brotherhood!

The membership at the end of the festivities

We could not do all of this without the best Executive Board who are so dedicated to this organization. Thank you guys for everything!

The Executive Board of the Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association

John Kinner, Tom Simpson, Justin Watrel and Roy DeYoung

Merry Christmas everyone and a very Happy New Year!

Beach Haven Library & Museum 219 North Beach Avenue Beach Haven, NJ 08008

The library at 219 North Beach Haven Avenue

https://www.beachhavenlibrary.org/

https://www.instagram.com/bhpl1924/

My review on TripAdvisor:

The front of the library and museum in the Fall of 2025

The historic sign

I recently visited the Beach Haven Library and Museum in Beach Haven during the holiday season and discovered a historical library with a rich history in both the community and on Long Beach Island.

The museum on the second floor

On the second floor of the library is the history room of the Beach Haven Library that contains a collection of historic artifacts and ledgers from hotels and businesses on the island. Each of the case lines tells a different story of the community from the grand hotels that once lined the shore and have since disappeared to the lives of the families that once called the island home. When I talked with one of the librarians, she told me that estates from the area donate these items to the library and this has established their collection.

The second floor fireplace

The antique kitchen equipment

The second floor of the library has another fireplace where vintage pottery and kitchen items are on display. There are also decorative pieces of pottery lining the shelves.

Historic China inside the Emily Lloyd Wilson Secretarial desk. Her father designed the Baldwin Hotel in Beach Haven.

The historic ledger from the Parry Hotel

The library has another fireplace where extensive collection of hotel ledgers and artifacts.

Letters from Elizabeth Pharo proposing the Library in 1923

Short History of the Library:

(From the library pamphlet)

Mrs. Pharo presented to the library board a proposal to build the library entirely at her own expense. She contacted Philadelphia architect, R. Brognard Okie to design the library. He chose the model of a Pennsylvania Farmhouse. The library was completed in the Fall of 1924. The museum is now over a hundred years old.

The dedication to Elizabeth Pharo, who dedicated the museum.

The Long Beach Island House Guest Ledger and historic items from the historic Bond Hotel

The records of the past resort town Long Beach Island used to be with guests coming from New York City, Philadelphia and beyond.

Historic items from the Tuckerton & Long Beach Building Land and Improvement Association

The Engleside Hotel ledger and items from the hotel

The New Jersey Declaration towards the Declaration of Independence

Historic books and periodicals

The library has an interesting collection of vintage and antique books that have been donated to the collection.

Photo display on historic sites in Beach Haven and pictures of the original library

Some of the pictures are from the old library and the artifacts come from ships ground ashore. The library has a diverse collection of items to view.

The Compass from the historic shipwreck ‘Fortuna’ that wrecked off Ship Bottom in 1910 and historic boat

The second floor museum gallery holds the diverse collection of artifacts

The second floor of the 1928 building

The first floor of the library has all sorts of historical artifacts along the walls

The Holiday Kickoff in 2025:

I visited during the library’s Holiday Open House with games, trivia and activities. There was also live music in the afternoon. It was a way that the library gives back to the community. It was a nice family event with good food and nice conversation with people from the community.

The Holiday Open House

The fireplace was going when I was talking to the librarians

It was a very nice family event where patrons families could relax, have something to eat and play games with their children. The Liberians could not have been more friendly and engaging with the public.

The Children’s Room had a holiday challenge

The museum is a rare gem tucked not just on the second floor but along the shelves and tables of the entire historic library giving visitors a chance to see all these historic artifacts mixed in with the library book collection.

The History of the Beach Haven Library:

(from the library website)

Attempts to establish a library in Beach Haven had begun as early as the 1880’s with a gift of books for the town’s children by Dr. Edward Williams. Williams, along with Charles Parry of the Parry House and the Baldwin Hotel, was a partner in the Baldwin Locomotive Works. The library collection was first housed in the home of Samuel Copperthwaite on Engleside Avenue. It was later moved into one of the Sunday School rooms of the Kynett Methodist Church, which had been built in 1890.

After the old Quaker Meeting House was donated to the town by Walter Pharo, the Reverend Alexander Corson of the Methodist Church began work, with the help of his wife, to turn the former Meeting House into a viable library. By the time they left in 1908, it was well on its way.

In 1923, Walter’s widow, Elizabeth Pharo, presented the library’s board of trustees with a proposal to build, entirely at her own expense, a new library for the town. It would be sited two blocks away from the Methodist church on a corner lot which she owned at Third Street and Beach Avenue. The library would be dedicated to the memory of her husband’s parents, Archelaus Ridgway Pharo and Louisa Willits Pharo–the founders of Beach Haven–as well as to her late husband Walter. 

Mrs. Pharo contracted R. Brognard Okie, one of Philadelphia’s finest architects, to design the new library. He chose as his model a Pennsylvania farmhouse–not an early lifesaving station, as some believed. Unlike a traditional farmhouse, however, it would be constructed entirely of brick and steel and include several stunning features: three working fireplaces, a vaulted ceiling, and an interior balcony encircling the first floor.

Tons of concrete were poured and steel girders for the new, two-story structure were already up by the spring of 1924 on the southeast corner of Beach Avenue at Third Street. Okie moved to Beach Haven to supervise every step of the construction, which was all done by local builder Floyd Cranmer. Ten railcar loads of bricks were used to build the solid outer walls and it was soon evident that the town was to have the finest library on the New Jersey coast.

As the library neared completion in the late fall of 1924, its beauty was already drawing praise. Every window in the structure was framed with long shutters of pale green, which gleamed against the white brick exterior. A sweeping, multi-dormered black roof added a grace seldom seen in a public building. Surrounded by a low, white picket fence and later, a well-kept green lawn, it added an incomparable dignity to what, in that time period, was the town’s main street, Beach Avenue.

There are two large colonial-style working fireplaces on the first floor. One is in the main room and the other is behind it in the long back room on the ocean side of the library. Today this room houses the Mystery collection and its solid, ten-foot table makes it useful as a meeting room. In the early years, however, it served a different function–it was designated as the men’s reading room, and there male patrons could sit in large comfortable chairs to read magazines and newspapers. It was well lit by two tall French windows and it opened out onto the screened porch on the north side.

The main reading room with its vaulted ceiling is encircled with a balcony reached by a spiral stone staircase, its steps topped with thick slabs of slate. The balcony flooring is of oak, as are all of the spindles in the railings. The upstairs walls are lined with books. One great window on the west side rises ten feet to the ceiling. The rest are all set into dormers. On the east wall behind the upstairs balcony there is a door where one may step down into a well-furnished little museum with high, beamed ceilings and a huge stone fireplace. It is filled with old hotel registers, deeds, diaries, photographs and other mementos of Beach Haven’s vibrant history.

The Beach Haven Public Library is a prime architectural treasure on Long Beach Island and a direct link to a colorful past that is the town’s most precious heritage. Mrs. Elizabeth Pharo’s gift to the town, itself now almost 100 years old, is as stunning as the day it was built. The taxpayers who support it are proud of its status as the only independent library in Ocean County and have chosen to keep it that way.

My Life as a Fireman: The Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association: The Annual Wyckoff Fire Department Breakfast and Meeting November 16th, 2025

Summer gave way to the cooler weather pretty quickly and with the annual barbecues behind us and the leaves changing colors, Fall was on its way.

The Wyckoff Firehouse meeting room

The members of the Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association met for our annual breakfast meeting at the Wyckoff Firehouse to discuss our past summer events and the upcoming Holiday Party and Entertainment the first weekend of December. We also discussed the upcoming fundraiser in January.

The freshly baked desserts made by one of the members wife

The Chocolate Chip cake was amazing!

Some of us who got there early were able to catch up with each other as well as get to know our fellow Brothers at the Wyckoff Fire Department, who only see once a year.

The Company One flag in the fire house

We started talking about some of the upcoming events that we will be sponsoring at the NJ State Firemen’s Home and the upcoming Thanksgiving holidays. I still could not believe how fast the Summer zoomed by. We were able to peek in the kitchen and watch the guys work their magic in their newly renovated kitchen.

The guys from the Wyckoff Fire Department cooking that afternoon

Then it was time to eat and the one thing I like about being a fireman is that we eat well. The guys up in Wyckoff really know how to cook and it was a great breakfast.

The guys from Wyckoff serving breakfast

The menu consisted of scrambled eggs, bacon, ham, sausage, two different types of potatoes, rolls, bagels and everyone’s favorite, steaks. Our host’s wife also baked both the Chocolate Chip and the Apple Cakes. It was a real feast.

Everyone helping themselves

Everyone starting to eat

My breakfast that morning. I am a fireman who likes to eat!

Yum!

After we finished eating, it was time to sit down to business. We started our meeting with our flag salute and prayer to our fallen Brothers. Then we discussed our fundraising success and with raising the much needed funds to buy the extras to make our fellow Brothers at the home stay there extra special.

We discussed the success of the two Summer barbecues we hosted at the NJ State Firemen’s Home and the popular upcoming Holiday party with a special dinner for members and the staff and gifts for all the residents. After the meeting adjourned, we took our group shot. We have such a dedicated group of volunteers.

The members of the Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association

The we asked the guys from the Wyckoff Fire Department to come out so we all could formerly thank them for all their hard work and for their hospitality.

The cooks from Wyckoff Fire Department who worked their magic that morning

It was another productive and wonderful afternoon for everyone there. Again we want to thank our Brothers at the Wyckoff Fire Department for their hospitality and generous amount of time to cook breakfast for us. Also, to our member, Nick Ciampo, a long service member of the Wyckoff Fire Department for arranging this special morning meeting each year and his gracious hospitality. This is what the Brotherhood is all about.

Members of the Mahwah Fire Department after the breakfast

Shivers House Museum/Sign of Key Tavern 68 North Main Street Woodstown, NJ 08098

Shivers House Museum/Sign of Key Tavern

68 North Main Street

Woodstown, NJ 08098

(609) 216-8815

http://www.salemcountyclocks.com/the-big-red-house

Open: By Appointment Only-Please call/Special Events

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowUserReviews-g46943-d34027431-r1039569744-Shrivers_House_Museum-Woodstown_New_Jersey.html?m=19905

The Shivers House at 68 North Main Street in Woodstown, NJ

The front of the Shivers House Museum at 68 Main Street from across the street

I got a personal tour of the Shivers House Museum and the Sign of Key Tavern, which is attached to the main house of the Shivers Family. The first part of the tour was of the Sign of Key Tavern, which consisted of The Hearth Room, where all the cooking took place and the Cage Bar room, where meals would be eaten and used for socialization.

I could see that the family business was very popular at the time when transportation was slower and these areas in the early 1700’s were barely populated. So this became the focal point of the communities. These taverns were part of the communication and transport systems of the country up until the Revolutionary War.

Later, family members built the the main house of which the tavern would be attached and thus began the home’s transformation to modern times. The house from the outside has a more symmetrical appearance but these changes on the outside altered the historic inside.

The History of the Shivers House:

In 1668, John Shivers at the bequest of King William of England was given thousands of acres to promote the hamlet development with what was then known as West Jersey.

Upon arrival, Shivers constructed on the property, utilizing Native American labor, a dam and saw mill on what would become Woodstown Lake. From here he milled the timber for his tavern. The tavern, The Sign of the Key, operated for 65 years on the corner of what is today Routes 40 and 45. Travelers could sleep, eat meals, communicate and trade furs from the area. After Shivers death, it was moved to its present location by his son, Samuel, as an addition to the current house.

The Shivers family owned the house through marriage through the Nineteen century.

The outside sign of the house

The informational sign on the history of the home and construction

The sign of the clock repair and antique shop business inside the house

(Much of the following research comes from owner Gregg Perry’s personal research on the house and family and from the personal tour Mr. Perry gave me of the house and grounds).

The first part of the house tour I took was of the old tavern section of the house. This had once been in a different area and moved here by the family and connected to the newly built house around 1726 when Tavern owner, John Shivers died.

The Cage Bar/ Dining room

The Dining Room area

The pewter materials in the Dining Room

The tavern was open in 1669 for business. The tavern has been here open for business from 1669 to 1720 until John Shivers died. The first part of the building served as the Kitchen area with an open hearth for cooking and serving. Meals were prepared here as well as keeping the building warm for guests who might stay overnight upstairs.

The second part of the building served as the Dining Room for the old Tavern. Visitors would have their meals served here and converse and socialize in this room. There is a rebuilt Cage Bar for serving alcohol. The old Tavern section of house has since been restored and has period furnishings and decorations.

The Cage Bar in the Tavern Room

The Tavern kitchen

The Hearth of the Kitchen is eleven feet wide by three feet deep by five feet high in opening containing two mobile cranes. The back firebox bricks are laid in a herringbone style pattern. A tavern hearth of this dimension would have allowed the cook to have multiple fires going in the firebox (Gregg Perry research).

The Kitchen of the Tavern

This is the room where all meals were prepared and served. It was also used as the central heating for the tavern in colder weather. It is decorated in period furnishings and pewter ware decorates the walls. This would have been used in serving at that period in the 1700’s.

The pewter materials

For the price of a penny today, a patron could have his choice of a tankard of ale or hard cider and a plate of whatever the entree was of the day as well as have the option to spend the night on the floor of the second floor with a burlap blanket. They could also have the horse fed and boarded if needed. The tavern had been in business in one form or another until the 1930’s when it closed for business during the Great Depression (Gregg Perry research).

The Main Part of the house was build 1723. This section of the home was built by John Shivers, whose portrait sits above the mantle.

The Grand Reception Room

The Grand Reception Room was built to impress visitors to the house and for entertaining for this prominent family. As the family accumulated wealth and social prominence in the area, the house was meant to impress people with its large fireplaces and tall ceilings.

The Portrait of John Shivers in the Grand Reception Room

The Grand Room

Much of the period furniture of the room has been restored back to its original form and the woodwork to the room is from the original house. Period clocks and decorations are from that period and part of the owners collection.

The Grand Room looking into the old Tavern

In the back of the Grand Reception room is the Keeping of Family Room where things were less formal. The room had been set up for Christmas. In the Keeping Room is the portrait of Samuel Shivers, John Shivers son above the fireplace.

The Keeping Room

This cosy room was set up and lit for the holidays. The lights put a nice glow on the original woodwork.

The Keeping Room at Christmas

Samuel Shivers painting in the Keeping Room

The house decorated for the Christmas holiday season

The Social Media for the house:

Video on the tour of the Tavern:

Part Two:

Day Three Hundred and Sixty Four Halloween zipped by and I did not see a Ghost! October 1st-31st, 2025

I started October with one game plan, not to over do it this year with loads of activities. At this point, I had been to almost every activity in the area over the last five years and I needed to concentrate on work and my writing this time around. I was still catching up with blogs from the summer and work with my 102 students at the college was getting over whelming. I took it easy this Halloween and did not cram as much in as previous years.

That and the fact that over the last five years I have been to every haunted house tour, cemetery graveyard walk, themed meal event and musical performance that I can find in the tri-state area. I had been to them multiple times and I wanted to find new things to do. Plus work was taking up a lot of my time, so I learned to better pace things this year.

The month started off with a tour to see the foliage both in New Jersey and in Upstate New York. The first trip I made was for the Apple Festival at the Gandy Farmstead which I had toured during the Firemen’s Convention two weeks earlier and two weeks after that it was back to the Hudson River Valley for the Annual Sheep and Wool Festival.

My blog on the Apple Festival at the Gandy Farmstead:

I had a very busy weekend of running around South Jersey. I have been updating my blog on the Historical Sites of South Jersey and trying to visit as many of this small museums and special events venues before they close for the season. Like any of my blogging trips, I planned the weekend like “D Day”. I lucked out as the weather was wonderful both days, clear, sunny and in the mid 80’s. I could not think of a better time to go to the shore than post-Labor Day weekend. My goal was to attend the Apple Festival that I had heard about at the Gandy Farmstead Museum when I toured the home for my blog, VisitingaMuseum.com (see blog and reviews).

The JW Gandy Farmstead Museum at 26 Tyler Road in Greenfield, NJ

Click to access gandy-house-history_copy_%2015June2008.pdf

https://capemaycountynj.gov/DocumentCenter/View/9331/CMC-Heritage-brochure-2022

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowUserReviews-g46699-d33734753-r1031187378-John_Westley_Gandy_Farmstead-Ocean_View_Cape_May_County_New_Jersey.html?m=19905

My blog on the Gandy Farmstead Museum:

Two weeks after my initial visit to the Gandy House during the Firemen’s Convention, I returned for the Historical Society’s Annual Apple Festival on Saturday, October 4th. The event reminded me of the Brinckerhoff House Strawberry Festival I had attended in May , a very nice family and community event that attracted everyone.

The East Fishkill Historical Society-Brinckerhoff House Strawberry Festival 2025/Exploring Fishkill, NY blog:

https://mywalkinmanhattan.com/tag/exploring-fishkill-ny/

Since there were a lot of shore towns I wanted to revisit while the weather was nice, I arranged to stay at an Airbnb in Ocean City so I had plenty of time to do what I needed to do and relax afterwards. Plus when the event was over, I could visit Ocean City and explore both the downtown and the boardwalk.

I could not believe how crowded the roads were as so many places were having either Fall festivals or October Fest. Route 9 was like a parking lot near Smithville, NJ as the town was having their ‘October Fest’ over both days of the weekend. Traffic was backed up for about two miles trying to get in so I got off Route 9 and traveled down the Garden State Parkway.

I got to the Apple Festival around noon and the parking lot was packed with people. One of the members said later that afternoon that he could not believe the consistent crowds as it was still busy at 2:15pm (the festival was over by 3:00pm). The crowds were filled with several generations of family members who I am sure were traveling from one event to another on this spectacular sunny morning. People were still arriving even as the event was winding down that afternoon.

The sign welcoming you to the event

When I arrived at the festival, the parking lot was still filling up so I had to park way in the back so I could get in and out easily.

On the Gandy family property on the other side of the home, they had an antique car show, a mini train ride around the tracks of this part of the property and a Caboose train car that you could explore.

The train tracks around the farm property

The train set up and tracks to tour around the farm

The train rides were really popular with both the small and ‘big’ kids

This small train trip had a nice sized line to it as families were really enjoying themselves

The back of the Gandy Farmstead with crafts and entertainment

Entering the Apple Festival with a Farmers Market and Apple sale

The Farmers Market of locally grown produce

There was a stand that was a mini Farmers Market with locally grown apples, pumpkins, squash and tomatoes on top of other produce. It was so nicely displayed and the prices were really reasonable.

They had a wonderful duo interesting the crowds that afternoon

There were all sorts of crafts stands around where the entertainment was performing

The local crafts people were really talented and included crocheted, painters, floral arrangers and jewelry markers. There were all sorts of handmade items and there were stands to buy homemade jellies and pickles and the prices were not like North Jersey, where a jar of jam at a Farmers Market will run you $15.00. The prices here were closer to $5.00 for certain items, which I thought was very fair.

One woman sold flowers from her gardens and arranged bouquets

This woman painted her own crafts and did beautiful work for both Halloween and Christmas

Here beautiful holiday crafts

I loved this Santa tree and was going to get it for my mom

This woman had the most beautiful handmade doll clothing and knit items for the holidays

What is an Apple Festival without food? I went to the concession stand for lunch and ordered a hot dog with a glass of locally made Apple cider and had an homemade Apple Shortcake, which I found out later the members had made the night before.

The concession stand where all the food was made

Enjoying my lunch. Both the hotdogs and apple cider were locally made and that’s why it tasted so good! The apple cider was from a local farm and I wished they had sold this at the festival. I think the farmer would have sold out!

Hot dogs taste so good off the grill!

The delicious homemade Apple Shortcake with homemade apple topping were made by the members

I also stopped off at the apple stand where cases of apples were being sold. It looked like many people were going to make pies and sauce with these and the stand looked like they were selling out.

I managed to buy one of the Mango sweet apples they were selling individually

The apples were so hard, fresh and sweet that it made the perfect addition to dessert. Nothing is better than a Jersey Apple right off the vine. I could not believe how fast they sold out of the boxes of apples and the individual apples were selling just as fast.

The Mango Sweet apples

Talk about delicious

After lunch, I ran into the Board members who had helped me with the tour two weeks early and I took a quick tour of the first floor of the home. The laundry room was not open the day of my private tour, so I toured this part of the house on top of taking a better look at the first floor.

Touring the outside grape arbor

The grape arbor on an early Fall day

Touring the first floor laundry room

An early washing machine

How to do laundry at the turn of the last century

After having lunch, touring the house and visiting all the vendors I relaxed for the rest of the afternoon and listened to the entertainment perform. The duo performed a combination of 70’s hit songs, country music and some James Taylor.

The duo performing classic hits

The first part of the song “Brandy (You’re a Fine Girl)” from the 1970’s before people walked in the way

The rest of the song performed. They did an excellent job with it

Before I left just after 2:00pm, I stayed to see who won the Apple pie contest. There were only three contributors but I wanted to get a slice before I left. They did not slice them up while I was there. Bummer! I really wanted a piece of fresh Apple pie.

The winners of the Apple pie contest

The Apple Festival sponsored by the Upper Township Historical Society happens every October. It is a wonderful family event and fundraiser for the Historical Society. I know I had a lot of fun and it reminded me of the events that I went to as a kid in the 1970’s, which was long before cell phones.

It was funny that the only person who had a cell phone glued to his hand was me but then I was there to cover this event. It really was a relaxing and wonderful afternoon with good food and entertainment. It was just like the 1970’s all over again with families enjoying each other’s company. Sometimes I think that people underate these local events which are so much fun. I don’t know about everyone else, but I had a ball!

Two weekends later, I headed up to the Sheep and Wool Festival at the Duchess County Fairgrounds and the followed by the Graveyard Walk at St. James Church in Hyde Park. There is such much to see and do this time of year.

Here is my full blog on the events:

Bryant Park on October 1st, 2025

The Sheep and Wool Festival is not as big as the Dutchess County Fair but had a lot of the same food and merchant vendors. On a smaller scale, it is much more manageable but with the number of people who attend this every year, they could use more food vendors for the event.

The sign and directions in the fairgrounds

The foliage was so beautiful that afternoon

The Festival takes place the second week of October just when the Duchess County foliage is coming to its peak. The fairgrounds were covered in golds and reds.

Entering the Midway at the Sheep and Wool Festival where the food vendors were located. The foliage was at peak color.

The Midway was not as packed with vendors as the fair but is had a nice selection of food vendors

Entering the middle of the festival was getting busy

The foliage was amazing both inside and outside the fairgrounds

I got up to the fair late this time, not arriving until 2:00pm ( I thought the festival ended at 6:00pm but it ended at 5:00pm) and needed to get done lunch. Amongst all of my choices, I still always head to Janek’s, the barbecue/hamburger truck that has been my favorite for years.

Janek’s food truck is always at the same location

For years I have been getting the Piggy Back burger with Cheddar cheese and pulled pork on top(which I highly recommend) but I decided to do something different and have the Burger with freshly made Pastrami and Swiss Cheese. A very nice substitute.

The Pastrami and Swiss burger

The burger was perfectly cooked with slices of smoked pastrami on top

Yum!

After a good lunch and getting my energy back, I headed over to the animal pens and the craft stalls to see all the handmade products. My first stop was the Sheep pens, where sheering was going on and they were many contests to showcase the livestock. The Sheep were being shown, sheered and were talking amongst themselves as we walked around the pens admiring them.

I found that the sheep looked really relaxed and seemed to have more fun staring at us

This little guy kept smiling at me watching him

While the livestock contest was going on to a huge crowd, I toured the Crafts stalls. In the Summer for the fair, this was full of cows and goats, it now had all sorts of wool vendors, knit items, handcrafts and cosmetic items.

The colorful wool items on display

These wool dragon sculptures I thought were really interesting

After the show was over, I decided to tour around Rhinebeck. I just wanted to take a quick walk around the downtown before I took a tour I had done a few years earlier at the St. James Church graveyard. Since I was Upstate, I figured I would do both the same day since the weather was nice.

I got to St. James Church in Hyde Park at 7:30pm so I had plenty of time. I had taken this tour back in 2021 just as everything had opened up and it was a lot of fun, plus I wanted to update my pictures of the church and the graveyard. It also gave me time to talk to the docents and get some background on the church.

St. James Church before twilight at 6:15pm

The staff was just setting up the lights at the cemetery (technically a graveyard)

The inside of St. James Church in Hyde Park, NY, parish of the Roosevelt family

https://www.facebook.com/stjameshydepark/

https://www.dutchess.org/events/st_james_historic_graveyard_tours

My review on TripAdvisor:

I got to the church an hour before my tour and just relaxed and admired the beauty of the church. I never saw an hour fly by before my tour started. Then darkness came and my tour started.

Darkness came by 7:30pm and the cemetery looked much different

We started the lantern tour with a talk of the spirits who were buried in the grave yard. Each of the actors was waiting for us at each stop. I still could not believe these actors were waiting alone in the dark in a graveyard for people to walk by the them.

Each of the actors told their tales of when they were living and stood beside the place that they were buried. It was very intriguing.

The first person we met was Mrs. Emma Victoria Pitkin Marshal

Mrs. Marshall was once known as the ‘Poet Laureate’ of Dutchess County. She was well known in the world of publishing.

The second spirit I met was Mrs. Harper, Mrs. Mill’s housekeeper up at the Staatsburgh mansion. She told us the story of her life working for the Mills and Livingston families.

Mrs. Catherine Kennedy Harper

Mrs. Harper told us about her life working for the Livingston family and her relationship with Ruth, who she was her nanny and then housekeeper.

Our conversation with Mrs. Harper

Our next spirit we visiting was the ghost of Gertrude ‘Gerdie’ Livingston who talked about her time in the Hudson River Valley and in New York City.

Gertrude ‘Gertie’ Livingston

Mrs. Livingston telling her tales of the Hudson River Valley

In between our conversations with the spirits of the past, we walked through the graveyard as twilight gave way to darkness. The graveyard was illuminated with lanterns and lights to follow the paths. It is easy to trip over a tombstone while you are walking around the paths. They did give us lanterns to light the way but there were not enough to go around.

The vaults are illuminated at night to follow the ghostly trail

Our next with the spirits was the ghost of Reverend John McVickar, who was the Rector at St. James Church starting in 1811. He married Eliza Bard, the daughter of Dr. Samuel Bard of Bard College and raised their nine children together.

The spirit of Reverend John McVickar telling his tales of his life in the church

Walking past the church at night

The last apparition we met that night was the spirit of Mr. Augustus C. Colman, the son of a sailing captain who invested heavily in Manhattan real estate on the advice of his boss. John Jacob Astor.

The spirit of Mr. Colman telling his tales of the City

Both himself and the Reverend went at it in the graveyard

The stained glass windows at the church

The church at the end of the tour

I decided to head home after the tour via the Kingston Bridge and drive into downtown Kingston, NY for dinner. I stopped at my favorite go to restaurant in The ‘Stockade District’ Wing Shui at 53 North Front Street. The food is consistently wonderful and extremely reasonable and you can sit down inside the restaurant.

Wing Shui Chinese Restaurant at 53 North Street in Kingston, NY

https://wingshuikingston.com/

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g48003-d822310-Reviews-Wing_Shui_Chinese_Restaurant-Kingston_Catskill_Region_New_York.html?m=69573

My review on DiningonaShoeStringinNYC@Wordpress.com:

I was surprisingly hungry even after the big burger at lunch. It got cooler that evening so I ordered the Wonton Soup, the Steamed Dumplings and one of their wonderful eggrolls. It was such a great meal and really warmed me up. For such a small hole in the wall restaurant/take out place, the food is excellent.

My dinner that evening at Wing Shui

The Wonton Soup had for large wontons that you could barely fit in your mouth in the rich chicken broth. That warmed up after a graveyard walk in the dark.

The Wonton Soup with the oversized Wontons and rich chicken broth

The steamed dumplings were plump and moist and filled with spiced pork mixture.

The dumplings here are delicious

Their egg rolls are always a treat and are the first thing that I ever tried here years ago.

The egg rolls here are excellent

Yum!

I was nice to sit in the restaurant and just warm up. The temperature really dropped that evening and it was a rather cool October in comparison to other years. There is nothing like Chinese food after a long walk in a graveyard.

After dinner, I walked around Downtown Kingston some more and admired some of the decorations and store windows decorated for the holidays. It seems like Halloween is now the lead into Christmas rather than Thanksgiving (some places have already decorated for Christmas).

The ‘Jack Pumpkin’ decoration that looked like it out of “The Nightmare before Christmas” in Downtown Kingston, NY

https://andnorth.com/kingston-downtown

From “Nightmare before Christmas”

A lot of windows were decorated for the Halloween holidays. The merchants in Downtown Kingston are so creative and here are some of my favorites.

This was displayed in the window on a North Front Street store.

The faceless entities in the windows

They face this witches hat

The skulls and pumpkins in the window. The merchants get quite creative at the holidays in the downtown area.

The Thursday before my birthday, we had a special late night at the Metropolitan Museum of Art and I finally got to tour the new Rockefeller Wing of the museum. After almost three years and COVID, the galleries have been mounted. The Oceania and African collections had been remounted with a new layout and pieces of the collection that had been in storage had been brought out. The collection looked a brighter and you could appreciate the art better.

I just needed an evening in the City to clear my head before my official birthday and I figured a night at The Met would help. It was nice to finally see these works again after several years of hiding. The galleries looked so much nicer and the works brighter and more vibrant.

The new Rockefeller Wing at the Met:

https://www.metmuseum.org/hubs/the-michael-c-rockefeller-wing

The Oceania collection now redone

The mythic statuary

Pieces from the African collection

Some of the unique pieces in the case

Faces that make a statement

Artwork that reminds you of the Halloween holidays

After I left the Met for the evening, I walked through the Upper East Side neighborhoods west of Madison Avenue and the creativity of the brownstone neighborhoods rivaled anything in that suburbs.

Walking on the Upper East Side before Halloween:

The Pumpkin glare

Black cats and Witches

From twilight to darkness, I walked all the side streets to see how people decorated. There were some very clever displays.

Outside of the grocery store

Then it got dark and the real magic began

Just at twilight

I walked down the Upper East Side from East 79th Street to East 60th Street from Madison to Third Avenues. It depended on the block but some streets were really competitive. These are the best displays I saw.

Guarding a building

Creatures that bump in the night

Halloween land

The doorway

The Headless Horseman

Guarding ghosts

Jolly pumpkins

I loved this ghoul guarding the house

I just hoped he didn’t come to life

Skeleton Parade

Ghostly lights

A happy ghost

More jolly pumpkins

The elaborate Halloween Kingdom

The Evil Witch guarding the house

Here is the witch explaining her wicked ways

More ghouls guarding the homes

A Christmas Halloween

From both angles

Boo!

Last year I did the ‘luxury’ birthday with dinner at Perrine at the Pierre Hotel and Afternoon Tea at the Lowell Hotel on top of my haircut at York Barber, and my trips to the Central Park Zoo and the Met. This year I was just content with staying home and relaxing. I have been doing nothing but running around from one thing to another in between classes.

Maricel asked me what I wanted on my birthday this year and I said ‘rest’. Having over a hundred students between three classes at various stages of their classes can be daunting for anyone especially for me. I had done the whole luxury birthday thing last year and on my birthday this year, it poured so badly during the day that I just stayed home and crashed. I stayed home and watched Michigan State get crushed by UCLA. That was rough!

For my birthday dinner that night, I kept it low key and went to Sofia’s, a Greek restaurant in Hasbrouck Heights. It was perfect because it was relaxing that night and the food was excellent.

Sofia’s at 220 Boulevard in Hasbrouck Heights, NJ

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g46497-d3468322-Reviews-Sofia_s_Mediterranean_Grill-Hasbrouck_Heights_New_Jersey.html?m=69573

For dinner I had the Shrimp Saganaki, which is a shrimp appetizer which is cooked in a tomato sauce and topped with cheese. I have loved this dish since they first opened.

The Shrimp Saganski appetizer

It is as delicious as it sounds

For dinner, I had the Gyro sandwich, which they put on their freshly made pita’s. Their sandwiches are delicious and they do not skimp on anything. I really enjoyed my meal.

My birthday dinner, the Gyro sandwich

For dessert, I had a change from the $35.00 slice of pink Dior cake at the Lowell and indulged in a slice of Baklava at Sofia’s, who much they make homemade and in house.

The Baklava at Sofia’s served as my birthday cake this year

This sweet cinnamon indulgence has layers of flaky and sugary phyllo and nuts and lots of honey. The perfect way to end the meal and the cap to my birthday dinner.

The next day Maricel took me out for a breakfast birthday at the IHOP in Hasbrouck Heights. I had not been there in a long time (and was a little shocked at the prices on the menu). I was just expecting pancakes, but Maricel knows me well enough and made the morning even more special. She greeted me with balloons. Turning 60 seemed to be a bigger deal to her than it was to me.

Maricel greeting me at IHOP on my 60th birthday

It is amazing how something as simple as this could mean so much. I love when my friends just do the simple things that touch me so much.

Now for people who say they do not like IHOP, you have never been to the one in Hasbrouck Heights. Their food and service is consistent and delicious. I have been coming here for years and have never once had a bad meal there. I love breakfast and could eat it all day long.

I had the “Two for Two” with two pancakes, two French Toast, two sausage and bacon and they even through in a side of toast. Talk about a perfect breakfast.

My birthday breakfast at IHOP at 111 Route 17 South in Hasbrouck Heights, NJ

https://restaurants.ihop.com/en-us/nj/hasbrouck-heights/breakfast-111-route-17-south-4667

https://restaurants.ihop.com/en-us/nj/hasbrouck-heights/

https://www.facebook.com/p/IHOP-Hasbrouck-Heights-100069442775972/

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g46497-d620307-Reviews-IHOP_Hasbrouck_Heights-Hasbrouck_Heights_New_Jersey.html?m=69573

You can’t beat a breakfast like this

You cannot beat IHOP’s pancakes!

The staff got caught up in the excitement of our meal and came over to sing “Happy Birthday” to me and brought me a dish of Vanilla ice cream with a candle in it. I was really touched. Sometimes the simplest things people do are the most touching.

The staff at IHOP really made the morning special with kind words, a nice song and their delicious Vanilla ice cream treat! That is good customer service!

This is what a best friend is for!

She saved the best for last and gave me a birthday present. Folks, I hate getting presents! Everyone always gets me what they like and never what I like. I always have to fake a smile and my older brother says I am the worst at it.

Maricel surprised me with a Hermes gift pack of Verte cologne, which is my favorite. I used it for years at Macy’s and Tiffany’s when I could afford it. I swear she totally surprised me. I told her she ‘nailed the birthday and made it perfect!” I love when people can read me.

Maricel by the balloons

After my birthday surprise, I took turning 60 with a badge of honor. When I look at my grandparents at my age, they always so much older to me. I guess it was just the times and their life experiences. They had it so much rougher than I did and I am always grateful to them from what I can remember of the love and support they had for us when we were little. With the exception of my father’s mother, none of them lived into my adult hood.

October also meant Midterms, Team Projects and Term Papers, which some of my students just could not handle. It was a struggle in each class to get the students to do their homework. Let’s hope they get to the finish line on December 17th.

My blog on the Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association:

https://tbcfha.wordpress.com/

The grounds of the NJ State Firemen’s Home decorated for the Fall holidays

The next weekend, I was in Boonton for our quarterly Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association meeting. Both the outside and inside of the Firemen’s Home was decorated for the Halloween holidays. They really did a nice job with it. After the meeting and entertainment were over, I went up to visit Downtown Boonton to see how it was decorated for Halloween. They do such a good job. The town was decked out with ghosts and ghouls all over the Main Street.

The horrible ghoul in the center of downtown

The town was not decked out for the Halloween and Fall holidays. It was not just the Halloween holidays but the beauty of the change of seasons and the Fall foliage.

The Hill section of Boonton

The Hill section of the town in October

The beauty of the Victorian homes

Each street was so beautiful

The homes were the colors of gold, red and copper

The businesses did a nice job with the scarecrows this year. The ghosts and ghouls dotted the downtown.

The Annabelle doll

The ghouls are out

The cat in the hat

Pumpkin head

Mars Attacts outside a restaurant

This strange Teddy was outside the library

Boonton does a wonderful job of decorating during both the Halloween and Christmas holidays. The downtown is decorated with all sorts of interesting and creative artwork and beautiful lights. I recently walked around the Downtown at the start of the holiday season and it was really festive. I always get a kick out of the scarecrows decorating the town.

My blog on Exploring Downtown Boonton (a very unique downtown):

https://mywalkinmanhattan.com/tag/exploring-downtown-boonton/

The fire department, even after I retired after 19 years, still keeps me busy. We had our Fire Department Relief Association meeting the night of ‘Halloween in the Park’ and after our meeting was over at 7:30pm, I headed over to Woodland Park in our town and watched everyone get on hay wagons and ride around Woodland Park being chased by ghosts and ghouls. I do not think I have attended this since before COVID. “Halloween in the Park” is an event our town sponsors that bring hay wagons thorough Woodland Park’s small bundles of trees and woods and scares them with costume characters.

It used to be spookier but when neighboring town, Wood Ridge, built a series of condos on the border of our towns and they took down all the trees on their side of the park, all you see is the windows of condos at the back of the park. Still, its a lot of fun and residents get a kick out it.

Woodland Park in Hasbrouck Heights, NJ at night

Halloween starts for me in Hasbrouck Heights with the town’s Annual Halloween in the Park, an event that takes place each fall in Woodland Park in Hasbrouck Heights. First thing to note that since developers have built new condos on the parks edges, it has taken some of the allure from the park. You can see the lights and people moving around.

We ‘stand by’ with the fire department for lights for the event and emergency calls when we have to leave. Still it is a lot of fun watching everyone get on the hayrides and start screaming in the distance. We watch from the equipment while eating a pizza dinner which we share with our Ambulance Squad who is on hand incase someone gets hurt. The last ride of the night, we get to go on when everyone else has left.

Patrons waiting at the Pavillion

The fireplace roaring at the event

Ghouls waiting for you

The park decorated for Halloween

The DPW takes families around the park in hayride fashion with bales of hay in the trailers and everyone on the trailer is chased and harassed by various ghosts, ghouls and witches. You spend most of the evening being chased with someone with a knife or chainsaw.

The start of the haunted hayride

Video of Halloween in the park

Ghouls and creatures of the night chasing everyone

This popular event is always sold out and residents get such a kick out of it. I of course was working that night and got there in time for the last two rides and people were still screaming at 9:30pm.

Halloween in the Park in Hasbrouck Heights, NJ in Woodland Park

I did more traveling down the shore to see what was happening in both Point Pleasant and Seaside Heights beaches. The boardwalks were decorated for the holidays and there were scarecrow contests and pumpkin carving on the Boardwalks. The day started off sunny but then a giant cloud came over the towns which did not clear until 4:00pm. Just as I was leaving, the sun came out again.

Both Seaside Heights and Park and Point Pleasant and Point Pleasant Beach are getting more active during the Fall Holidays as more people have moved down the shore permanently. There are a lot of events for kids and their families families to participate in.

When I visited Seaside Park and Seaside Heights, I stopped in just after a Scarecrow Making Contest. The contest was already over by the time I got there but people were still looking them over. The kids did a really nice job with the contest. While Seaside Heights and Park don’t have the activities that its northern neighbor Point Pleasant has, the activities led to some creative ingenuity of the kids and there were interesting decorations all over the towns over the Halloween weekend.

The Scarecrow Contest in October 2025

The Scarecrows lined up

Some of the Scarecrows I liked

This one stood out

This jolly creature stood out too

The strange scared scarecrows

The town even decorated the Boardwalk more this year with skeletons and other creatures. There were not many activities on the Boardwalk on the Halloween weekend but the decorations were fun. Even on this warm afternoon at the shore, it put me in the Halloween spirit.

Skeletons on the Boardwalk

Zombies on the Boardwalk

The Boardwalk was busy with people who had just participated in a Pumpkin carving contest. The weather was overcast by the late afternoon but most of the businesses on the Boardwalk were open and there was a choice of places to eat and shop along the way. The two bars were packed with people who were watching the Giants game. I big change from when I was in Cape May and it is all Philly fans.

My full blog on Visiting both Seaside Heights and Seaside Park:

After my visit to Seaside Heights and debating on where I wanted to go to lunch, I drove up the coastal highway through the other beach communities to Point Pleasant and Point Pleasant Beach. The downtown arts community always knows how to decorate the downtown and Jenkinson’s does a nice job on the Boardwalk.

When I visited Downtown Point Pleasant, I was able to admire the decorations on both the downtown Main Street and then walk to the Boardwalk. The downtown is always so nicely decorated and I love the whimsical scarecrows that decorate the downtown. The windows are filled with creative displays that always seem to be begging for Christmas decorations even before Halloween is even over (like most stores everyone wants to rush the holidays).

Downtown Point Pleasant in the Fall of 2025

The Point Beach Arts community gets very creative in Downtown Point Pleasant with the Gazebo decorated for Halloween

https://www.facebook.com/PointBeachArts/

https://arts.pointpleasantbeach.org/events/scarecrow-contest-2025

The Winners:

https://www.instagram.com/pointbeacharts/?hl=en

The bat stares at you

The Scarecrow in the Gazebo

I walked their downtown and saw that their Arts Commission added more scarecrows to the downtown light posts.

The scarecrows from 2025

Another creative scarecrow

There was a lot of creativity in this downtown contest

The scarecrows came in all styles

Barbie display

The Phantom bride

More unusual scarecrows

They get very creative in Downtown Point Pleasant

When I walked to the Boardwalk a couple of blocks away, it was a little cooler than last year but there was still a good crowd walking around the Boardwalk. The afternoon activities sponsored by Jenkinson’s kept everyone active with their series of programs at “Boo at the Boardwalk”. They decorated the Boardwalk for the Halloween Holidays and kept all the stores and restaurants open adding to the festivities. With the Fall holidays getting warmer, it is a smart business decision to extend the Summer activities further into Fall.

‘Boo on the Boardwalk’ in 2025

https://jenkinsons.com/boo-at-the-boardwalk-2025-at-jenkinsons-boardwalk

Decorations on the Boardwalk in 2025

Limited rides and attractions were open that day

There were decorations all around the Boardwalk

These signs were all over the Boardwalk

The declarations on the Boardwalk on Halloween

The Boardwalk was busy Halloween weekend of 2025

Halloween is always fun on the Jenkinson Boardwalk. There was always something going on. The towns really get into the Halloween holidays. The park really knows how to celebrate the holidays.

My blog on Exploring both Point Pleasant Beach and Point Pleasant:

https://mywalkinmanhattan.com/category/walking-downtown-point-pleasant-nj/

https://mywalkinmanhattan.com/category/exploring-point-pleasant-beach-nj/

It was a lot of running around the shore from Boardwalk to Boardwalk but it is interesting the amount of activities these towns have been doing and the creativity that goes into them. This led me to visiting another shore town the next week when I visited Long Beach Island the Town of Beach Haven.

It was rather quiet in town when I visited Beach Haven the week before Halloween. Usually there was a lot more going on but it was probably reserved for the weekends. Some parts of the of the town were decorated for the holidays but I did not see the activities of the other shore towns that day. Still there were reminders of Halloween here and there throughout the town.

Woo Hoo at 211 South Bay Avenue

https://thewoohoo.com/

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g46292-d7646259-Reviews-The_Woohoo-Beach_Haven_Long_Beach_Island_New_Jersey.html?m=69573

My review on DiningonaShoeStringinNYC@Wordpress.com:

My first stop was Woo Hoo at 211 South Bay Avenue for some ice cream. The store was all decorated for the holiday, and they even had a specialty ice cream flavor for Halloween, Spooky S’mores. The ice cream here is a real treat as it is made in small batches on premise.

Woo Hoo carries some non -ice cream merchandise

They have now cut the menu down to just ice cream. There is no longer any ‘meal’ items like sandwiches and fries. The woman at the window explained, they will be only the homemade ice cream on their menu. I had no problem with that. Woo Hoo was preparing for the Halloween and the shop was decorated for the holidays.

Games for kids

They decorated the interiors

The store was surrounded by ghosts and ghouls

I looked over the menu and I saw a flavor I remembered from the past, Spooky S’mores, which I had when I visited the island a few years ago for Halloween. It is a Marshmallow Ice Cream with a Chocolate swirl with graham crackers and Halloween M&Ms and you only see it at this time of the year. I had to have that.

The Spooky S’mores flavor

It was delicious

The Spooky S’mores was loaded with graham and M&Ms in every bite and the ice cream was so rich and creamy. Going to Woo Hoo at the holidays is the best!

They now have ice Cream making classes

The service could not be friendlier. The staff is very accommodating and will help you make a selection from the various choices. Not only that but the staff knows the island really well and can point things out for you to see.

I spent the rest of the afternoon exploring Beach Haven, walking through the stores and amusements areas which were still open this late into October. The warm weather over the weekend really attracted a lot of people and watching people play miniature golf this late into the season was interesting. The shore towns in New Jersey really are going full season.

Beach Haven Bay during the day

It was a nice snack to enjoy after walking on the beach or exploring the island. I walked down the block at the end of Dock Road and enjoyed the views and watched the boats sail by. I also got a great tan.

Beach Haven, NJ by the bay is just beautiful

Just sitting by the bay relaxing

Admiring the boats while I digested

The creative artwork by the shore

It was fun to just walk around Beach Haven’s downtown that afternoon and enjoy the warm weather. They had a Chowder Cook off going on down the road, so the town was packed with people that afternoon.

My blog on Exploring Long Beach Island and Beach Haven, NJ:

I saw by the weather report that Hurricane Melissa was coming up the coast and I knew that this would knock the foliage down all over the state so I made one last trip down the Route 46 Budd Lake to the Delaware Water Gap. I started at the Delaware Water Gap to take the pictures of the foliage in the sunshine and then I worked my way back, stopping at farms along the way and in Hackettstown to take more pictures. I wanted to get the pictures of the foliage before the storm knocked it all down.

The Delaware Water Gap at River Road off Route 209 in 2025

https://www.nps.gov/dewa/index.htm

I was able to stop at the U turn on Route 80 West and park in the beginning of the trails that go through the park. Since it was so gloomy out and it was getting late in the afternoon, I stuck by the Visitors Center, which was closed for the season and walked along the river. Most of the foliage had been knocked off the trees by the two recent storms but there were still hues of gold and yellow with the trees that were left. It is a breathtaking view of the mountain range.

The foliage from the highway

When I returned in October of 2025, I timed it so that the trees would be at their peak and it was before a major rain storm the next day. I figured this would be the best time to come. Plus it was going to be the last nice day of that week. The trees were just past peak but because there had not been much rain that summer, the leaves changed earlier than in past years.

The mountains at the Delaware Water Gap from the Visitors Center in the Summer months

https://www.nationalparks.org/connect/explore-parks/delaware-water-gap-national-recreation-area

The Gap in the Fall of 2025

The Visitors Center in the Fall of 2025

The river in the Fall of 2025

I continued my path down Route 46 East, taking pictures of foliage and stopping at the Marshall Farms to see the Halloween decorations. Sometimes you will pass a farm stand and you see the standard pumpkins, peaches and apples outside. When you pass Marshall’s Farm Stand in Delaware, NJ, you see a whole farm experience with orchards of fruit, corn fields and a property that is decorated for the upcoming Halloween holidays.

The side of the Marshall’s Farm Stand at 114 Route 46

http://www.marshallsfarmmarket.com/

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g46387-d3571725-Reviews-Marshall_s_Farm_Market-Delaware_New_Jersey.html

My review on LittleShoponMainStreet@Wordpress.com:

The other side of the farm stand stocked high with pumpkins

The festive pumpkin sat on the roof of the building

The whole front of the farm was stocked with all sorts of early Fall produce, honey, jams and jellies and delicious baked goods including pies, cakes and rolls and their specialty, their mini Apple Cider doughnuts.

The fresh Jersey produce

The cream rolls and homemade pies, including apple, berry and Shoo Fly pies

The best is their mini Apple Cider doughnut. One bag of these and you are content for the afternoon. I can barely get out of the parking lot with indulging in one or two of them before my drive down Route 46 to the Delaware Water Gap.

The farm stands addictive Apple Cider doughnuts

These sugary delights are so good!

What I also enjoy is their delicious apple cider. I found out though that they do not make it in house but a farm close by makes it both for their farm and Marshall’s. It is sweet and very refreshing and only comes in gallon containers.

I love walking through the stand, walking past the pumpkin, produce and the crafts display.

The pumpkin display in the parking lot

After I put my purchases in the car, I walked around the farm, looking at all the decorations they had for the upcoming Halloween holidays. The farm has pumpkin picking, corn mazes and a hayride where the $5.00 cost includes along with the hayride a cup of apple cider and a doughnut. I could handle that.

The sign for the weekend hayrides

The witch sign in the parking lot near the Corn Maze

The witch painting at the start of the corn mazes

Ghosts decorating the field

The Corn Maze was still tall and green and I am sure led all around the property. Each part of the front part of the farm was decorated for Halloween festivities which would happen the next weekend.

The cemetery in the back of the farm stand

A horrible ghoul

All the Halloween decorations at the start of the hayride

Here is my blog on the whole trip down Route 46 East and West from Budd Lake to the Delaware Water Gap:

Hurricane Melissa came up the coast the week of Halloween and a lot of functions were either cancelled or had to move inside. I had no desire to go into the City when it was pouring rain. So I missed some of the museum and Central Park events that had been cancelled and stayed home. We really lucked out on Halloween night, and the weather was a brisk 58 degrees. It was clear and the perfect night for the parade. The parade this year went off without a hitch. I got to the parade after a long day at work and I made it into the City by 4:00pm.

We started the sign in for volunteers at 4:00pm

I met my counterparts at the start of the shift and I really lucked out. We had a really good group of people who would answer ‘no’ to people. I was able to see a little bit of the puppet rehearsals before people started to arrive for the event. There was a lot of excitement as everyone got ready to start the parade.

The puppets ate the beginning of the parade

Puppet rehearsal before the parade kick off at 7:00pm

I met many creatures, witches and things that go bump in the night at the beginning of the parade and they enjoyed showing themselves off.

This Sea Maiden joined us at the beginning of the parade

This group of friendly witches and warlocks joined the parade early

As the sun went down and the parade was about to begin, balloon creatures joined as the Good Witch led the way. The parade of costumed characters was in full swing by 5:30pm as people entered the gates for the parade.

The Good Witch with the balloon creatures

The Good Witch with the insect

Even Frankenstein joined the parade

Moon creatures joined this Witch of Darknes

Ghosts and ghouls with balloons

Then the parade start was getting closer between 5:30pm and 7:00pm, it got crazy at the gate and people tried every which way to get into the gate. I kept and to talk and finally yelling at people to keep it organized. I swear I have never seen adults act like little children. We have more people try to sneak through the gate with every excuse. I have learned to put my foot down and it is by pass only.

Then the golden hour of 7:00pm came and the parade started. As the floats were heading uptown, people were still scrambling, trying to get in. At 8:00pm, this woman walks up to the gate one hour into the parade and tells me she was here as a volunteer. I told her we were closed at that point and have a nice night and see her next year. It amazes me how people use excuses to get in.

Watching the parade from inside

We finally closed the gate at 8:30pm and the police took over security from there. I was able to walk in and watch where the parade begins. It is always interesting to see how the parade works and how this organized.

Watching the parade progress uptown from the sidelines

The chutes where the floats come out combined with the number of costumed people is carefully done and I have never seen so many people marching in the parade. Later on, someone told me the police were turning people away because too many people were showing up.

The parade from Dominick Street heading uptown

I could not believe how crazy it got in the park as the parade progressed. I have to give the guys who are the volunteers who coordinate the parade so much create. They do an amazing job. They really are worth their weight in gold.

More of the floats heading uptown

The video shows the true magic that goes into the parade from behind the scenes

The last of the floats heading uptown

The last of the floats start to head uptown by 9:00pm and after that, it is all costumed people, not just New Yorkers but people from all over the world who had come to walk our unique parade.

People walking uptown in full drag

The weather cooperated and their was an over flow of people marching and enjoying the parade

The costumers enjoying themselves

I loved the creativity of the costumes

The last of the floats heading uptown

I loved these costumes. The headless guy was pretty gruesome

A better look at the headless Spector

The last of the floats heading uptown

The last of the floats starting uptown before the costumers took over

I left the parade route and walked through the parade to get to at least 8th Street before I veered off on to Seventh Avenue. I walked uptown to join some of the volunteers after the parade for dinner.

Walking through the Village and looking at the decorated windows and homes

Some of the private homes are so beautifully decorated in Greenwich Village

Another great decorated home in Greenwich Village

The West Elm right next to the restaurant on West 12th street

I am sorry but to decorate your store to the hilt on Halloween night is really rushing the holidays. They did this the year before as well. Who ever heard of looking at a Christmas tree on Halloween night?

Still the store looked gorgeous and their visual people did a marvelous job

It was nice to sit down to dinner that night. I was starved rushing from work to the City and then to the parade route. I did not get to eat anything and was famished.

Joining friends for dinner at Da Umbertos at 107 West 17th Street

https://daumbertonyc.com/

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g60763-d423279-Reviews-Da_Umberto-New_York_City_New_York.html?m=69573

It was nice to meet some of my counterparts and swap stories about the parade.

Meeting with friends for dinner that night

The restaurant had a wonderful buffet that evening

The Penne Vodka and Sautéed Shrimp were wonderful

The dinner I enjoyed was wonderful

After dinner and some wonderful conversation, I said my goodbyes. I had been going strong since 4:30am that morning and was beginning to run out of steam. I just wanted to head home and go to bed.

I decide to walk back to the Port Authority from the restaurant since it was such a beautiful night. The weather really cooperated and it was a crisp and beautiful night.

Even the Empire State Building was decorated for the holiday

I was lucky that I walk fast. I made the 11:50pm bus out of Manhattan and got home by 12:30am. It had been a long night. The night was still young and I still did not see the spirits of the night except parading up Sixth Avenue.

Even when I reached Hasbrouck Heights, the decorations were still up and lit. It was nice to see that holiday spirit strong in town.

The houses were still lit and decorated when I got home

Residents love to decorate their homes in Hasbrouck Heights

It always amazes me of homeowners creativity

Post Halloween:

There were still traces of Halloween even after the holidays. Stores and homeowners kept their displays up but the lure of Christmas and the warm weekend meant that people started to take things down so the Christmas declarations could go up.

I went down to Mill’s Bakery to check out their Halloween treats and there was still some things left. The sweetest things were available in all the bakery cases.

The front of Mill’s Bakery at 275 Valley Boulevard in Wood Ridge, NJ

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I loved the festive Frankenstein cake. Talk about creative!

The festive and creative cupcakes

The fun loving cupcakes

I loved the Halloween cookies and a little pricy at $5.00 each but were well worth it. I bought a few for snacks.

The mummy cookie was so good!

So was the Pumpkin

The ghost was good too!

Mill’s Bakery does such a good job at any holiday

I took my cookies and went back to Downtown Hasbrouck Heights to tour the window paintings from the contest a week earlier. The sweetness of the cookies gave me a sugar rush.

Walking in Downtown Hasbrouck Heights for the Halloween holidays

Downtown Hasbrouck Heights was still decorated for the Halloween holidays with festive window displays and the kids window paintings from the recent Window Painting contest.

Some of the window painting downtown

These kids are so creative

The weekend of Halloween (Halloween fell on Friday night this year), I took my best friend, Maricel to the “Pumpkin Blaze” on Croton on the Hudson, NY. I go to this annual event as part of my membership to Historical Hudson Valley. I love walking through the old Van Cortlandt Estate and seeing the creativity of the carvings and displays.

The entrance to the Pumpkin Blaze

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We started off early and had dinner at one of my favorite Chinese restaurants that I feature on my blog, DiningonaShoeStringinNYC@Wordpress.com, Dong Happy Gardens at 440 South Riverside Avenue in the ShopRite Mall. The food and service are excellent and the family who run it are really nice.

https://hudsonvalley.org/explore-area/listing/listing/dong-happy-garden

https://donghappygarden.restaurants-us.com/menu#google_vignette

My review on TripAdvisor:

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I love the food here. It is white tablecloth quality for a small take out place in a strip mall.

I had the Orange Chicken with Pork Fried Rice and an egg roll and Maricel had the same with but with Barbecue Spareribs. I can’t tell you how wonderful the food is in this tiny take out place but you have to try it for yourself. I have never had a bad meal here.

The Orange Flavored Chicken with Pork Fried Rice is excellent

Then we shared some Panfried Pork Dumplings. They really hit the spot on a cool night.

The Panfried Dumplings were a nice addition to dinner

Dinner was a chance for us to catch up and talk. So much has been happening in our lives and we never get a chance to talk.

After dinner, we headed over to the ‘Blaze’ and then the fun began. The parking lot was packed with people and the weather really cooperated. It was cool but not cold and walking through the pathways was nicer than we thought.

The Spider display

A close up shot of the spider

Maricel in front of the rainbow flag that was on display at the entrance of the displays

We started our tour through the Blaze walking through the rows of pumpkin carvings. I noticed there were less of them this year than in years in the past. Still there was some interesting pumpkins.

The first row of carvings I thought were interesting

An interesting face

Another interesting face

The Haunted Pumpkin Windmill

Frog swimmer

The Pumpkin Octopus

Visiting the Hudson River Sites

Pumpkin sling shot

Me in front of the Statue of Liberty sculpture

The Statue of Liberty sculpture

Walking through the Light Tunnel

Maricel and I in the Tunnel of Lights

This is the experience you get when you walk through the Tunnel of Lights

Then we reached the Van Cortlandt Manor, home to the Van Cortlandt family. The house had been closed for years for touring since the renovation but been open for the Blaze.

The cemetery was moved from here to earlier in the tour with a Circus in its place.

The ‘Under the Big Top‘ pumpkin sculpture

The beauty of the Van Courtlandt Manor at night

The Wonderful Lightshow at the manor house

We then toured the amusement area. The Merry Go Round with its eerie sounds and glowing pumpkins made it foreboding.

The eerie Merry Go Round

The Merry Go Round

Maricel though it would be more cheerful with a picture of me

We then looked over the Halloween Circus train that passed us by. I loved looking at all the Circus animals.

The Haunted Circus Train

My video of the Circus Train

We then walked through the end of the display with all sorts of ghosts and ghouls that included a Pumpkin man and the Headless Horsemen.

The Headless Horseman

Chasing poor Ichabod Crane

The evil Pumpkin man showed himself towards the end of the tour

The end of the tour looking back at the lights and displays. There were all sorts of lit pumpkins as we exited the tour.

This was my favorite

Me at the end of the Pumpkin Blaze with one of the flying monkey’s behind me.

It may have been a Halloween with less activities and far less running around but it was far better than my years of Trick of Treating as a kid! Yuck!

Happy Halloween everyone! Until next year!

Boo!

The eerie evening and holiday had now passed

Happy Halloween! Here comes Christmas…….

Day Three Hundred and Sixty Attending the NJ State Firemen’s Convention and visiting many Historical & Cultural sites in Bethany Beach, DE, Upper Cape May County, NJ and Margate City, NJ September 11th-13th, 2025

When the second week is September comes and the Labor Day weekend is behind us, it is time for the NJ State Firemen’s Convention.

This was going to be a particularly long weekend for me as I was going to be extending my trip to include a series of visits to historical sites in Southern New Jersey to complete a blog on historical New Jersey. Most of these little sites are NEVER open.

My street was being ripped up with replacing the morning I left and with an 8:00am class, I decided to leave early for class and then leave for my mother’s right after my 11:00am class was over.

I had never planned a trip like D-Day before. The laundry had to be done, the house cleaned, the bills paid, the dishwasher run and I had a series of repair work being done around the house. Plus knowing I had to be out of the house early meant that I had to wake up at 4:00am to get out of the house then to work then to drive the four hour trip to my mother’s.

I was in the middle of perfecting my students resumes, which is always the toughest project in my class. It is a challenge every semester but worth it if it will help them get a job. So I had been extremely busy at work.

After my last class was over, I decided to get on the road and head down to Rehoboth Beach. As I passed my house on my way to the New Jersey Turnpike, I saw the workers completely ripping apart my street and thank God, I had left early.

It was a really nice day as I traveled to Delaware. I had planned on visiting a new museums in Bethany Beach before my ferry ride to Cape May the next day, so the trip would be more of a working business trip and vacation.

Because of my schedule with work and the holidays, I take my mother to dinner for her birthday on Convention weekend. It’s less rushed and we have a good time.

I got down the Rehoboth Beach about an hour before dinner and was able to relax a bit. My mother chose the restaurant, Harvest Tide in Lewes, DE for dinner, which I had been before and enjoyed.

The Harvest Tide at 410 East Savannah Road in Lewes, DE

https://harvesttidebethany.com/

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g34028-d14924728-Reviews-Harvest_Tide_Steakhouse_Restaurant-Lewes_Delaware.html?m=69573

The Dining room at the Harvest

The food was excellent and we all enjoyed our dinner. I started with a delicious Caesar Salad with fresh greens and a homemade dressing.

The Caesar Salad at the Harvest Tide

For my main meal, I had the Lobster Pasta, which was excellent. The pasta was perfectly cooked and was loaded with pieces of sweet lobster in a light cream sauce.

The Lobster Pasta

For dessert, I treated myself to a giant piece of their Ten Layer Cake. I forgot how big these slices were and I just about finished it.

The Ten Layer Cake at the Harvest Tide is a treat

I was a very laid back evening and we had a nice time catching up. It was going to be a quick trip this time and I had to be in Bethany Beach at 11:00am the next morning so I had to be out the door early. I slept like the dead that night.

The next day over breakfast, my mother and I spent the morning catching up and laughing at past holidays. It was a really nice overnight stay and it was fun to have that time together.

I left after breakfast and headed to my appointment at the Dinker-Irvin House Museum in Bethany Beach. Who knew the whole morning would be spent visiting cultural sites in Bethany Beach.

The Dinker-Irvin House Museum in Bethany Beach

The front of the Dinker-Irvin House at 318 Garfield Parkway

https://www.townofbethanybeach.com/110/Town-Museum

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dinker-Irvin_House

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g33997-d33496882-Reviews-Dinker_Irvin_Museum-Bethany_Beach_Delaware.html

My review on VisitingaMuseum.com:

https://visitingamuseum.com/tag/dinker-irvin-house-museum/

I toured the house and the grounds with members of the Board and they gave me the full history of the house and its place in Bethany Beach. It really is an excellent little museum representing town history.

The history of the shore

The shore kitchen with some of the original items

The front gallery of antiques

The museum was really unique and the Historical Society does a nice job displaying and interpreting all them.

After my tour was over, I had plenty of time before taking the ferry over to Cape May, so I visited both Bethany Beach History Museum and the Bethany Beach Nature Center. I did not know that either of them even existed.

The Bethany Beach History Museum

https://www.townofbethanybeach.com/110/Town-Museum

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The museum is located in the main floor of Bethany Beach City Hall. It has some interesting displays on the towns’s history. There are also displays on artifacts from different aspects of the town’s past.

The displays of the museum and shelves of artifacts

The displays of town artifacts on display

The main exhibition was the history of their Life Guard Squad

After I finished up in the two museum’s, I walked a bit of their downtown and saw the statue of Little Owl at the entrance to downtown.

The statue of Little Owl at the beginning of the Bethany Beach downtown

After that tour, I visited the Bethany Beach Nature Center. The center consisted of the main building which was a historical home and then the gardens and grounds.

The Bethany Beach Nature Center

https://www.townofbethanybeach.com/397/Nature-Center

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The inside of the Nature Center

The turtle displays inside the main room

The inside of the Nature Center there were all sorts of displays on turtles and fish and tables for students for games and drawings. The real draw are the gardens and nature trails in the back of the building.

The entrance to the Baldwin Trails

The entrance to the gardens

The gardens in full bloom

The back trails led to the marshes and to the wooded areas. The views were breathtaking.

The back pathways to the marshes

Looking over the watering hole

To end my tour of the Nature Center, I toured the front gardens of the building which had a Butterfly Rain Garden.

Part of the Rain Gardens

I was touring the garden when a Monarch Butterfly flew in and landed on a flower. It would not open up and I wanted to take a picture of it so I yelled at him to open his wings so I could take a picture. He did!

The butterfly landing in the garden. I yelled at him to open his wings for a picture.

The butterfly must have heard me and opened up his beautiful wings

After I took the picture, I showed it to him and he flew away. Everyone is a critic! Still, it was a beautiful butterfly.

I really had a nice time not just visiting the Nature Center, but the other two museum’s as well. I could not believe all these hidden gems in such a small town of Bethany Beach. They really have a nice selection of museums and cultural sites for such a small town.

Before I headed to the ferry to Cape May, I stopped in Ocean View to visit their Historical Village. This tiny historical street of had many historical buildings but the complex was closed so I just took some pictures around the neighborhood, stopped at an antique store across the street and then headed to the ferry.

The sign for Historic Village in Ocean View at 40 West Avenue in Oceanview, NJ

https://hvov.org/

https://www.oceanviewde.gov/news/post/2469/

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The historic Village of Ocean View

The historic buildings on the edge of the property

Ocean View Park in the summer of 2025

What I love about the Cape May-Lewis Ferry on a nice day is the ferry complex on the Lewis side has some nice restaurants that are partially outdoors and on a calm day, the views are amazing. Because the waters were so calm, we got over to Cape May fifteen minutes early and that meant I could check into my room by 5:00pm and relax.

Checking out the snack bar on the ferry on the trip to Cape May

I got to the Chalfonte Hotel in Cape May in a half hour and checked in. The hotel was preparing for that night’s entertainment which was ‘The Ramble’, a local group who performs there every Thursday night during the warmer months

The Chalfonte Hotel at 301 Howard Street

https://www.chalfonte.com/

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Hotel_Review-g46341-d79381-Reviews-The_Chalfonte_Hotel-Cape_May_Cape_May_County_New_Jersey.html?m=19905

My room for the next four nights was a tiny room on the second floor with a shared bathroom, perfect for someone who is never in his room.

Parts of the Chalfonte Hotel look like the ‘Overlook Hotel’ in ‘The Shining’

My home away from home for the next four days

I rolled into bed and had a long nap before ‘The Ramble’ started. When I woke up later, the crowds had swelled all over the front lawn and street and they closed the side streets off as well. I never saw crowds like this before for the concert.

Joining the rest of the crowd for the weekly ‘Ramble’ on the Chalfonte Hotel porch

Part of ‘The Ramble’ concert that evening

The Ramble on the porch of the Chalfonte Hotel

The concert on the porch

After the Ramble was over, I walked into downtown Cape May for dinner. This particular weekend was all about the pictures. I had to go back in time and retake pictures of all the meals and places I had been to on previous trips to update older blogs. So on top on my duties for the fire service, I would be working to update all my older blogs.

So all my meals and museum visits my this a ‘working vacation’ on top of visiting new places to add to the treasure trove of great hidden spots to visit.

I would be having several meals at the Ugly Mug and Uncle Bill’s in Cape May and the Ravioli House in Wildwood. I even stayed an extra day in Cape May to complete my pictures with breakfast at the Magnolia Room dining on the porch.

My return meal at the Ugly Mug at 426 Washington Street in the Washington Mall was a favorite of mine and a specialty of their’s, the Cheesesteak.

The Ugly Mug at 426 Washington Street

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I sat at the bar watching the Mets and Philly fans duke it out watching the playoff game. Even though we are all from New Jersey, you see the difference once you pass Long Beach Island. South Jersey is all about Philly not New York.

The inside of the Ugly Mug’s bar area

I just ordered my Cheesesteak and sat back and relaxed and enjoyed my meal and my time off. It was fun watching the exchange from people from North and South Jersey and see how the alliances change at the border of Hunterdon County.

Now this is a Cheesesteak!

You can not get this in North Jersey

It was a nice evening talking with the bartender and watching a game I couldn’t care less about. After dinner was over, I worked off dinner by walking around the Washington Mall and walking by the beach. The weather the whole weekend was amazing and we had sunny days everyday.

The beaches of Cape May are amazing at night

After a good night’s rest, it was off to the Convention meetings. Our meetings don’t start until 10:00am, so there is enough time for a good breakfast. That meant two mornings at Uncle Bill’s.

Uncle Bill’s Pancake House in Cape May at 261 Beach Avenue

https://www.unclebillspancakehouse.com/cape-may

https://www.facebook.com/unclebillspancakehousecm/

My review on TripAdvisor:

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I love coming to Uncle Bill’s. The service is always so friendly and the food wonderful. This weekend was about the picture and I was eating the meals of the past that I needed photos of for past blogs so that meant ordering the French Toast special (I so hate my job as a travel blogger).

The French Toast special at Uncle Bill’s

The French Toast and Sausage here should not be missed

After a good breakfast and walk back to the hotel, I headed to Wildwood for the first day of meetings. It was a spectacular sunny day and since I got there so early, it gave me the opportunity to walk on the boardwalk and get some ocean air before our first meeting.

Walking on the Wildwood Boardwalk before the morning meetings

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The Wildwood Boardwalk would not look like this for long

The first day of meetings for the NJ Jersey Firemen’s Convention is full of pump and circumstance, but with 9/11 being the first day of the Convention, we respected our Brothers who gave their lives that terrible day. There was a lot of emotion in the Convention Hall as a lot of these members are of the age where a lot of them volunteered in New York to assist and still have lingering health issues.

While it is a somber time for firefighters when we remember the 24th Anniversary of 9/11 we still have to carry on the traditions of the fire service. Time has a way of marching on and while we remember our fellow brothers with dignity and respect, we can only honor them by continuing our craft and building on the things that made them successful at their jobs. So delegates from all over the State of New Jersey met from September 11th to the 13th for the annual NJ State Firefighters.

Getting to the Wildwood Convention Hall early

I am starting to see some of the same faces over and over again as I have been attending these meetings. What I am beginning to notice is that the crowd is getting older and thinning out. The younger firefighters don’t seem to be taking over from their predecessors. The average age of the people in that room had to be at least 45 years old.

Still we carry on with our mission of making the first service the best it can be. This means a lot is going on the State organization. We started the morning out with the Bergen County Pipe & Drum performing with the Wildwood Fire Department’s Color Guard.

We stand for the performance

The performance as they entered the Convention Center

Then the welcome from the Executive Team to the Convention started. If you ever want to see a prouder group of Americans it is fire fighters. When do the Pledge of Alliance, you never saw a whole convention center do it in unison. That is where I am very proud of being a firefighter. Is the dedication these men and women give to their communities that mantle people do not appreciate.

After the initial introductions and welcome, the Pipe & Drum and the Color Guard left. It’s pomp and circumstance when they leave as well.

The closing ballad before they left the Convention Center

It was an afternoon of business talking on current issues of the fire service and items that we were dealing with the state. There were many bills on the Governor’s desk to be signed and line items we were fighting for our membership. There would be a lot of State and local issues to vote on the next day.

After the first day of meetings were over withI had to travel around Cape May County to visit various cultural sites and revisit farms for my picture taking mission. The first place I visited was the Sam Azeez Museum in Woodbine, NJ.

Touring the fire equipment displays at the Convention after the first meeting

During my four day stay in Cape May, I had appointments to see many historical sites that are normally never open or open at specific times where I can never visit. So I either made appointments to meet people or set my schedule to meet with the precious hours these places were open. I planned this trip like D-Day. You had to hit each spot at a specific time or else the window closed.

The Sam Azeez Museum of Woodbine Heritage at 360 Washington Avenue in Woodbine, NJ

https://woodbinemuseum.org/

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My review on TripAdvisor:

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https://visitingamuseum.com/tag/exploring-woodbine-nj/

The inside galleries

The Sam Azeez Museum is a look at the Jewish community that was established well heeled Jewish businessman that established for new immigrants. They built a successful community assimilated the population to become Americans.

The history of the Jewish community in Woodbine, NJ

The museum was an interesting look at the successes and failures of the community but the museum shows a community that keeps changing. I thought this was fascinating that a community like this once existed.

There is a synagogue on the second floor

The Americanization of children through baseball

I thought this was a fascinating museum because the museum itself does not tell this story in its website. It is such an interesting look at a community and it asks the question ‘how do you become an American?’ It is a rich history that most of New Jersey does not know.

A self sustaining community

The new Americans playing America’s past time

After I returned from my tour of the museum from Woodbine, I relaxed and walked along the beach near the hotel. We really lucked out with the weather that weekend and it was sunny and clear. It was starting to cool down a bit but it was still nice to be outside at night.

Meals on this weekend trip were all about the pictures so I headed to The Ravioli House at 102 East Bennett Avenue in Downtown Wildwood, NJ for dinner. This is my favorite place during the Convention to eat and is one of my popular sites on my blog, LittleShoponMainStreet@Wordpress.com.

I was here so many times without a cellphone to take pictures of all the wonderful dishes that I had eaten and this weekend I was going to have them again. This is when my job gets tough!

I always enjoy seeing the owners daughter when I walk in. She is always in the same spot greeting people. I get one of the booths in the back and stretch out. I got there a little late so it was just starting to wind down. The service is always excellent so I got my food pretty quickly.

The Ravioli House at 102 East Bennett Avenue

https://www.raviolihousewildwood.com/

https://www.facebook.com/raviolihousewildwood/

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g46931-d393862-Reviews-The_Ravioli_House-Wildwood_Cape_May_County_New_Jersey.html?m=69573

My review on LittleShoponMainStreet@Wordpress.com:

Tonight I had the dinner I had five years ago, the Manicotti with homemade meatballs with a fresh salad. It was just as delicious as I remembered.

The start of the meal is a fresh green salad with their homemade Creamy Italian dressing and the freshly baked bread

The fresh salad is always a treat

The freshly baked bread makes it is easy to devour a few baskets

The entree was excellent and all the pastas, sauces and meatballs are made in house. You can taste the quality.

The Manicotti with meatballs was excellent and I love their red sauce

The homemade meatballs should not be missed

The meal was incredible and I topped it off with a St. Joseph pastry with vanilla cream. It was from their pastry shop and was wonderful (see my review on TripAdvisor and LittleShoponMainStreet@Wordpress.com).

My dessert, the St. Joseph pastry

All the desserts are baked in house

After the amazing dinner, the restaurant was closing for the evening and I needed to work off dinner so I parked closer to the Wildwood Boardwalk and walked the length of it back and forth. I was so surprised that on the first night of the Convention it was so quiet. Many businesses were still open that evening to very little crowds. I think the merchants were surprised by this as well. When I got back to the hotel, I slept like the dead.

We did not have to be at the Convention Center to vote until 9:00am, so I could sleep in a bit. I planned breakfast on the Boardwalk so I was fine either way time. It was a beautiful sunny morning and I got up to blue skies and warm weather.

The Chalfonte Hotel in the morning

The Magnolia Room set up on the porch in the mornings. I would find here my last morning at the hotel.

I got on my way to Wildwood for voting and then breakfast. When I got to the bridge to get to Wildwood, I had to stop as a boat was passing by and I got the best pictures taken.

Getting to the bridge

The marshes

The boat was coming

The boat passed by so gracefully

The boat passed by so gracefully like in the movies

It only took a few minutes but I thought it was one of the most enjoyable things to watch in the morning. In this age of rushing around, something so simple as this could be so much fun to watch.

I got to the Convention Center, voted, signed in and talked with some other delegates. Then we were done with our meetings for the day and I left for breakfast to my favorite spot on the Boardwalk, Franconi’s Pizzeria at 3318 Boardwalk. All meals are excellent at Franconi’s.

Franconi’s Pizzeria at 3318 Boardwalk

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g46931-d4441386-Reviews-Franconi_s_Pizzeria_Ristorante-Wildwood_Cape_May_County_New_Jersey.html?m=69573

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My breakfast was amazing! Biscuits with Sausage Gravy, Hashbrowns and a homemade Cinnamon Twist (they did not get the Cinnamon rolls that morning). This feast was my breakfast and lunch for the day.

Don’t miss these decadent Biscuits with Sausage Gravy

The Cinnamon twist is not on the menu but the owners daughter made it special for me because there were no cinnamon rolls. What a delicious treat and I highly recommend ordering it!

After a meal like that and Voting over, I had to walk the Boardwalk again just to work some of it off.

The Boardwalk got busy after Voting was over

The weather was fantastic that morning and the amusement piers would be opening later that evening

There were many museums and cultural sites I would be visiting in the area and I did not want to spend my entire morning on the Boardwalk, so off I went again visiting museums. My first stop was just off the Boardwalk at the Doo Wop Preservation League Museum at 4500 Ocean Avenue.

The Doo Wop Preservation League Museum at 4500 Boardwalk

https://www.doowopusa.org/the-museum

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g46931-d283304-Reviews-The_Doo_Wop_Preservation_League_Museum-Wildwood_Cape_May_County_New_Jersey.html

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This unique little museum unfortunately gets drowned out by the fire department displays and beer garden and people really don’t appreciate it for what it is, a glimpse of Wildwood’s Motel past that is quickly disappearing in the wake of the real estate boom and gentrification. I don’t give the remaining motels more than five years before they all sell out.

The museum is bright and shiny

The museum shows the progress made after WWII and the optimism of the electric age after the war with foreign travel part of a dialogue that most people could not afford yet but wished to attain. So these motels brought that to them. As the era passed, these relics show the progress we had made and then what we left behind. I think it is one of the most clever small museums I have visited down the shore.

While searching for the Cape May Maritime Museum (which does not exist except in some of the members wanting for a physical space), I came across the Garrett Family Preserve, which was a large wetland preserve just outside Cape May proper.

The Garrett Family Preserve at 801 Wilson Street in Cape May Creek

https://www.nature.org/en-us/get-involved/how-to-help/places-we-protect/garrett-family-preserve-at-cape-island-creek/

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My review on TripAdvisor:

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The Preserve is acres of wetlands that is refuge for birds, butterflies and wetland creatures.

The Butterfly sculpture at the end of the paths

When you enter the Preserve, you have the option to follow several paths that take you through the woods, the wetlands or down paths of wildflowers. It was unfortunate that it had not rained in a month and the preserve was very dry.

The sign had said in the Spring that the preserve was alive with colors of flowers. Still it offers a glimpse into the mating areas and refuge for these insects and birds on the path to warmer climates.

Searching for the Maritime Museum, which will have a physical building in the future the President of the organization assured me when he called me later that afternoon, I headed back to Cape May to walk along the beach after a long day of meetings and cultural visits.

The beaches were busy on this warm late summer evening

It was a beautiful afternoon just walking the shoreline trying to get my mind off everything

Please join me for my walk at the shore

The views of walking that Cspe May shoreline

I am never sure where these tubes come from

The shore works its own magic

The view on the Boardwalk at Cape May Beach

It was still early in the evening so I decided to head to Sunset Beach in West Cape May and watch the sunset before going to dinner. That is always a treat to watch!

Sunset Beach in West Cape May arc502 Sunset Boulevard

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I thought this shot was so picturesque

Then we watch the sun take its final bow

There is nothing more beautiful on a clear night than seeing the sunset before set on this beach. The crowds were huge. Being Convention weekend, people were packed all over the place. I had to park about a mile up so that I could drive back out.

The restaurant that had once been a simple snack shop and was now a higher end restaurant with views of the bay and that did not help the parking situation. The crowds a families set up blankets and chairs all over the beach and then we stood back and let the magic take place.

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Then all the beautiful colors of the sun

The beauty of the sun set

I set on the beach with the locals while everyone else fought to get out of the parking lot and headed back to Cape May for dinner. It was such a spectacular night.

The Washington Street Mall was packed with people that night. With the Convention meeting now over, many fire companies were having their get togethers that night. A lot of the older firefighter couples though I could see opted for a quieter night strolling the Mall.

The Washington Mall that night

https://www.washingtonstreetmall.com/shopping

On the third night of my dining picture taking it was back to the Ugly Mug for dinner and for the elusive Bacon Barbecue Cheese Burger (dinner four years ago).

My dinner at the Ugly Mug, the Barbecue Bacon Cheeseburger (and yes, it is as delicious as it looks)

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After the wonderful dinner, I took a long walk along the Mall, the Boardwalk and beaches to work the dinner off. What spectacular views of the town.

The Washington Mall later that evening

I went back to the room and slept soundly as I had a long day of work ahead of me. After the Convention was over, I had arranged an extensive day of touring with members of the Board of the Upper Cape May Township Historical Society to tour all three of their historic sites, the Gandy Farmstead, the Friendship School and the Tuckahoe Train Station, plus an additional tour of the Endicott-Reardon Family Museum. It would be a long day.

Waking up to the sun the next morning

When I woke up the next morning and checked my schedule for the morning and afternoon, and then checked the weather report, I decided to extend my stay in Cape May one more night.

I arranged for the additional night and walked down to Uncle Bill’s Pancake House for the second day of picture dining. It was another sunny afternoon and I was going to need a lot of energy. I ordered an Omelet with a side of sausages, potatoes and rye toast (breakfast from Christmas time 2021). The breakfast was excellent.

The omelet with potatoes and sausage

The breakfasts here are amazing!

You can create two breakfasts from the meal

On the way back to the hotel, I had to walk along the shore just to work some of breakfast off before my roadtrip. They give you so much.

It was a beautiful morning and a perfect shore day

God creates these beautiful days for us to enjoy

After my walk, it was time to meet the Board Members of the Upper Township of Cape May Historical Society at the Gandy Farmstead, my first historical stop.

The Gandy Farmstead at 26 Tyler Road in Oceanview, NJ

http://www.uppertwphistory.org/whats_new.htm

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I was met by two of the Board member who had just arrived and we did an extensive tour of the house, the outer building and the grounds.

The first floor kitchen, storage and wash area of the house

The kitchen and heating area of the house

The second door bedroom

The attic loft area

We then took a tour of the grounds that included the well, the smokehouse, the outhouse and extensive tour of the barns. The organization did a nice job preserving the integrity of the home and life at that time period.

The back part of the grounds with the various buildings

We did an extensive tour and discussion of each building (you can see the full tour on my blog VisitingaMuseum.com). The barn was the most interesting.

The barn on the Gandy Farmstead

The inside of the barn

The inside of the barn

The tour was really nice and what an interesting home. The displays were so well organized and laid out. Each of the buildings told their own story.

The grape arbor behind the house

We discussed the Gandy family whose ancestors live across the street and who had donated the home a grounds to the committee. We also discussed to upcoming “Apple Festival coming up in two weeks.

Please read my blog on the Gandy Farmstead Apple Festival:

After the full tour of the house and grounds, we headed to the Friendship School down the road and up the highway from the homestead. Another fascinating look at the areas past.

The Friendship School at Route 9 in Palermo, NJ

http://uppertwphistory.org/Friendship-School.htm

https://pressofatlanticcity.com/news/local/upper_township/history/a-history-of-the-school-buildings-of-upper-township-part-1/article_d2843ad1-e761-5f17-b0f8-114b708cf879.html

My review on VisitingaMuseum.com:

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The school just showed me how things have not changed in over a hundred years.

The front of the Friendship School

The school has the most interesting look both inside and out. You see the way students lived and learned at the turn of the last century.

The old water pump outside the school for classroom use

The classroom reflects education of the various levels of students between the ages of Kindergarten and High School.

The classroom set up is still similar to today

Instead of computers and laptops they used slates, chalk and books

The Friendship School showed how much we have progressed in education but it also has stayed the same. The ladies explained to me that the school is open at certain times of the year to show children how the classroom still reflects its main purpose, to learn and to educate.

The Outhouse

On my way to the last historic site on the Historical Society’s list, the ladies took me to the Frog Hollow Bakery for the most mindblowingly delicious doughnuts.

The Frog Hollow Bakery at 140 NJ 50 in Ocean View, NJ

The front of the Frog Hollow Bakery

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We just stopped in for a doughnut and I tasted on of the best fried sugar doughnuts I had had in a long time. Everything on the counter was made from scratch and looked so good.

The delicious looking buttery breads and cakes inside of the bakery

Do not leave this bakery until you have tried one of their fried sugary doughnuts

This is such a unique and wonderful little bakery. It has a nice selection of not just baked goods but a gift items and produce.

The next historical site I visited was the Tuckahoe Train Station in Tuckahoe, NJ. This Victorian structure was once the hub of shore transportation. Now it houses all its treasures of the past.

The Tuckahoe Train Station at Railroad and Market Street in Tuckahoe, NJ

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tuckahoe_station_(New_Jersey)

http://www.uppertwphistory.org/mission.htm

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The Board member who met me at the museum was an expert on the station and gave a very in-depth tour of both the inside and outside of the station.

The old Waiting Room and Gift shop

Most railroad museums I have visited in the past have been dark and dusty but the Tuckahoe Station, which is brightly lit, beautifully organized and has engaging displays.

Each display case showed a different aspect of life on the rail system from arrival to departure

We toured both floors of the station which showed not just the life of passengers coming to and from the shore but the life of the station manager. It was a very demanding job where you have to wear many hats.

The room of the station manager on the second floor

The station manager’s office

We then toured the Baggage Room and Receiving Room

Each room built on the other showed the day of the passengers as they arrived at the station with their luggage and then had to be transported to their destination at the shore.

Then we toured the outside rail yard where many of the old train cars are being or have been restored. We discussed train travel with some lines being very luxurious for the time and others just regular transportation.

The outside rail yard on the old tracks

The Blue Comet railcar was once the ultimate in luxury travel to the shore

The last place we toured in the complex was the Repair and Transport building next to the rails. This is where everything was maintained at the depot.

The Repair Shop

The station stop at the end of the tour

I was really impressed by the Tuckahoe Station with such an interesting and thorough tour. I could not believe almost two hours went by. I said my thank you and sang my praise of how organized and fascinating the museum was to tour.

My last museum tour of the day was the Endicott-Reardon Family museum at 3036 Shore Road in Ocean View,NJ. This brand new museum houses the artifacts of both sides of Endicott and Reardon families.

The front of the Endicott-Reardon Family Museum at 3039 Shore Road

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My review on TripAdvisor:

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The beauty of the museum is that the last direct family descendant never threw anything out and carefully organized things for years anticipating that she wanted to open a museum. It is a fascinating look at the life of an Upper Middle class family from the turn of the last century to today.

The beauty of the museum is that the last direct family descendant never threw anything out and carefully organized things for years anticipating that she wanted to open a museum. It is a fascinating look at the life of an Upper Middle class family from the turn of the last century to today.

The inside of the museum and its extensive collection of family artifacts

The curator of the museum met me in the late afternoon for the tour. Instead of a musty house, this recently built museum is bright and airy and the well lit displays showcase the collections. Each section of the museum is broken down by collection and life style.

The family artifacts at the entrance of the museum

The Living Room set up

The bedroom set up

The Dining Room set up

The Founder’s Doll Collection

The founder of the collection even had a collection of dolls and toys she loved and the display was replicated in the museum with all the original toys.

The founder as a little girl in her bedroom

The exact replica of the picture with all the original toys

Family items from father and uncles

What amazed me about the museum was how meticulous the owner kept all the family items including everyday items like irons and dishes. The woman never threw anything out.

Everything from her childhood into adulthood had been carefully documented and preserved much to the benefit of us the visitors. We get a glimpse into the life of an Upper Middle class family at the turn of the last century. I thought this was fascinating and for people interested in history, it is a nice museum to visit.

After my tour I talked with the curator and thanked her for all her time and promised a wonderful write up (please read my blog on all these museums). Then I headed back to Cape May

On my way back I stopped at an ice cream stand that had become part of my tradition on my trips, the Icd Cream Station at 809 US 9 in Cape May Courthouse. The ice creams are all made in house and are delicious.

The Ice Cream Station at 809 US 9

https://www.icecreamstationhomemade.com/

https://www.facebook.com/IceCreamStationCMCH/

My review on TripAdvisor:

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The ice cream here is amazing. It is so dense, rich and creamy. It is a lot of fun to just sit in the courtyard and just relax.

The courtyard of the Ice Cream

The Cookies and Cream and Moose Trakes ice cream

The delicious selection of ice creams

The props of the property that you can eat at and climb

I love coming here for a snack. The name has changed twice over the years but quality of the ice cream has stayed the same. Consistently delicious.

I headed back to the hotel to relax for a while before dinner. I had never crammed so much into one weekend when attending the Convention while answering emails for work each night for my students. I went from morning to night.

I returned to the Ravioli House that night for dinner again for another night of picture taking. This time dining on a dinner that I ate four years earlier. I love doing this type of research.

The meal started off with an order of homemade Fried Mozzarella, which was served with their delicious red sauce. They looked like fancy fried mozzarella sticks. They were excellent. Gooey and stringy at the same time.

The Fried Mozzarella

Then a crisp salad, which I always enjoy with their homemade dressing.

The house salad with Creamy Italian dressing

For dinner I ordered a dish the I have enjoyed here twice before, the homemade Linguini with Bolognese sauce. Talk about a wonderful dinner. The rich combination of freshly chopped meats and tomatoes is excellent. I never have a bad meal here!

The pasta is delicious

The dinner was excellent

For dessert I indulged the Pastry shop next door and enjoyed a Delishioso cookie. This is a short bread cookie filled with hazelnut filling.

The Pastry shop at the Ravioli House

The assorted cakes and pastries to choose from in the case

The inside of the pastry shop

My dessert, the Delishioso cookie

This sweet indulgence is two buttery shortbread cookies with hazelnut filling and rolled in chopped hazelnuts

What a sweet treat!

After a day of running around for both jobs, I decided to extend my stay by one night. I was so tired from all the driving and touring and trying to cram everything into one trip, I went back to my room and had the best nights sleep in a long time.

The next morning I had a relaxing breakfast at the Magnolia Room, the Chalfonte Hotel’s restaurant. It was such a nice warm sunny morning, that I ate out on the porch. It was nice to sit back and relax and do nothing.

The Chalfonte Hotel my last morning

The inside of the Magnolia Room set up for breakfast

https://www.chalfonte.com/the-magnolia-room.html

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Dining on the porch is what you want to do when the weather is warm. The views are wonderful and it is so relaxing.

The views from the porch at breakfast

Admiring the views at breakfast

My breakfast, the Chalfonte Breakfast with scrambled eggs, bacon, hash browns and toast

The breakfast at the Magnolia Room are excellent

Went back up to my room to relax for a bit before check out. I had a long trip home and decided this time to take it easy and not rush back. I decided to follow the shore towns up and make stops at places I wanted to visit again. Getting myself motivated after a relaxing night and morning was tough.

Checking out of my room late the next morning

I left Cape May later that morning and heading up the shore highway with a stop in Stone Harbor first. I took my time and took various stops along the highway to take pictures.

The marshes along the highway to Stone Harbor, NJ

The lone fisherman in the early morning

The views of the coastline

The view of the marshes

The marshes in Stone Harbor

When I got into Stone Harbor, I tried to see if the historic Life Guard station was open but it was closed for the season. That is when I came across the Stone Harbor Bird Sanctuary. I must have passed this dozens of times over the years and did not know what it was.

The entrance to the Stone Harbor Bird Sanctuary at 11400 Third Avenue in Stone Harbor, NJ

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I toured the main path through the park and got lost in walking through the woods which drowned out traffic and all you could hear was the birds chirping. It was a quiet and peaceful walk admiring the woods and the sounds of nature around me.

The entrance to the Stone Harbor Bird Sanctuary

Walking through the woods hearing nature

The woods were beautiful in the late Summer

The outside of the park on a early Sunday morning

I continued up the coastal highway to my last stop on my way home. I decided to stop in Margaret, NJ to visit Lucy, the Elephant. I had not visited this famous structure in years and I wanted to update my pictures.

Lucy the Elephant at 9200 Atlantic Avenue in Margate, NJ

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Starting the tour at the leg

The weather was so nice that we were able to tour the whole elephant and the nice part about the tour was that it was just myself and the tour guide. Items great to visit here on Mondays when it is quiet.

Heading up the stairs

The belly of Lucy

The inside of Lucy was once real estate offices

The tour guide explained to me that the elephant was used to attract real estate buyers of shore land back at the turn of the last century. The structure had through many owners before it fell into disrepair after WWII. The effort to ‘Save Lucy‘ became the battle cry of the community much to the benefit of all future visitors. The elephant needs constant maintenance and visitors are how it benefits the community.

The view from the top of the Huto

The view from the Huto of the ocean

The view of the City of Margate, NJ

Lucy the Elephant from the parking lot

After the tour was over, I had a wonderful conversation with my tour guide about her going to high school in Atlantic City. Those battle scars were interesting to talk about.After I left , I went to explore downtown Margate and see if the Margate Historical Society was open. It was closed for the afternoon.

The Margate Historical Society at 1 South Washington Avenue

https://www.margatelibrary.org/margate-historical-society-museum

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The museum has limited hours and was not open that day. So I had lunch and headed home.

Between my work for the fire department and my work on my travel and dining blogs, it was an extremely productive weekend. There will be more of this area to explore in the future.

I could not believe how much of the shore I covered for my travel blog and was still contributing to the future of the fire service. We have to do what we need to do to promote the great State of New Jersey.

RH Farm 500 US 46 Hackettstown, NJ 07840

RH Farm

500 US 46

Hackettstown, NJ 07840

(908) 414-5662

https://www.facebook.com/serendipity665/

https://www.instagram.com/rhfarms_/?hl=en

Open: Sunday 10:00am-5:00pm/Monday-Saturday 10:00am-6:00pm (Seasonal)

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RH Farm at 500 US 46

The front of the farm right before Halloween

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The sign welcoming you to the farm

I was out exploring the Route 46 corridor several years ago from Budd Lake to the Delaware Water Gap and I visited a series of small farm stands along the way. RH Farm at 590 US 46 was one of the standouts that I visited .

It was not just the selection of fresh produce I saw on each of my visits in both in the Spring and Fall, but it was the selection of the variety of goods there was to purchase and the way they were displayed.

There was also a nice selection of freshly baked goods, arts and crafts items and plants and flowers all beautifully displayed like a boutique.

The inside of the farm

The selection of pumpkins in the Fall

I love the way they decorate the farm for each holiday. They decorated not just the selling space but other parts of the farm as well like the grounds and the barn area.

The display of holiday crafts and pumpkins

The holiday display of pumpkins and flowers

The Halloween decorations

They have a wonderful selection of pumpkins and gourds for the Halloween and Thanksgiving season.

The pumpkin display

Even their barn which looks like it is falling down looks picturesque. The property has such a unique feel to it.

The outside grounds

Both in the Spring and the Fall, the trip to both Budd Lake and the Delaware Water Gap are a real treat. What beautiful views.

The beautiful foliage in the Fall of 2025 by Budd Lake

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The sun blazing in the Fall of 2025

The sun simmering on the lake at Budd Lake

The foliage by the lake

The views of the surrounding community in the Fall of 2025

Visiting the farm in the Spring:

Before I left Budd Lake I stopped at RH Farm stand, a small farmstand at 500 Route 46 West. I would spend most of my day exploring various farmstands along to way to see the selection and prices of the items. For the most part, everyone was charging New York City farmers market prices for produce. Some stand were charging $6.99 a pound for peaches and $12.00 for a small pie. I guess many of these people were hoping people from Manhattan were coming out for the day. I did find some decent prices but for the most part most of the stands were pretty expensive.

The entrance of RH Farms

RH Farm Farm Stand at 500 Route 46 West

This picturesque little farm stand has been in business since 2012 (I would have thought much longer) and offers an array of produce, gourmet products and flowers. I just thought it looked really nice. The prices are a little high though. Still quality does have a price tag to it.

The entrance of RH Farm Stand

The inside of RH Farms Farm Stand

The inside of RH Farms

The beautiful flower arrangement at RH Farms

The peaches and produce at RH Farms

4th of July display in Summer of 2024

4th of July display in the Summer of 2024. Uncle Sam looks on

Christmas display in the Summer of 2024

The plant display in the Summer of 2024

Their little cat welcome me with a couple of charming rubs to my legs.

History of the Farm:

(from the farm website)

RH Farms LLC is a local family-run Farm that has been producing delicious fresh products since 2012. We strive to make the most of everything the great outdoors has to offer. Our products are fresh from the field, so you can be sure you are buying the best quality produce. Come visit us with your family for a day of fun at RH Farms LLC.

We’re dedicated to providing a traditional farm experience to everyone in The Northern New Jersey area. Our crops, flowers and home furnishings bring visitors closer to nature while providing a memorable experience. We pride ourselves on our advanced farming methods so we can protect the environment while providing the community with only the freshest food. Contact us to learn more about our goals and missions.

Marshall’s Farm Market 114 US-46 Delaware, NJ 07833

Marshall’s Farm Market

114 US-46

Delaware, NJ 07833

(908) 475-1989

http://www.marshallsfarmmarket.com/

Open: Sunday-Saturday 9:00am-5:00pm

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The front of the Marshall Farm Market at 114 US 46

Sometimes you will pass a farm stand and you see the standard pumpkins, peaches and apples outside. When you pass Marshall’s Farm Stand in Delaware, NJ, you see a whole farm experience with orchards of fruit, corn fields and a property that is decorated for the upcoming Halloween holidays.

The side of the farm stand

The other side of the farm stand stocked high with pumpkins

The festive pumpkin sat on the roof of the building

The whole front of the farm was stocked with all sorts of early Fall produce, honey, jams and jellies and delicious baked goods including pies, cakes and rolls and their specialty, their mini Apple Cider doughnuts.

The fresh Jersey produce

The cream rolls and homemade pies, including apple, berry and Shoo Fly pies

The best is their mini Apple Cider doughnut. One bag of these and you are content for the afternoon. I can barely get out of the parking lot with indulging in one or two of them before my drive down Route 46 to the Delaware Water Gap.

The farm stands addictive Apple Cider doughnuts

These sugary delights are so good!

What I also enjoy is their delicious apple cider. I found out though that they do not make it in house but a farm close by makes it both for their farm and Marshall’s. It is sweet and very refreshing and only comes in gallon containers.

I love walking through the stand, walking past the pumpkin, produce and the crafts display.

The pumpkin display in the parking lot

After I put my purchases in the car, I walked around the farm, looking at all the decorations they had for the upcoming Halloween holidays. The farm has pumpkin picking, corn mazes and a hayride where the $5.00 cost includes along with the hayride a cup of apple cider and a doughnut. I could handle that.

The sign for the weekend hayrides

The witch sign in the parking lot near the Corn Maze

The witch painting at the start of the corn mazes

Ghosts decorating the field

The Corn Maze was still tall and green and I am sure led all around the property. Each part of the front part of the farm was decorated for Halloween festivities which would happen the next weekend.

The cemetery in the back of the farm stand

A horrible ghoul

All the Halloween decorations at the start of the hayride

The Halloween decorations in the back of the building

The Halloween poems on the decorations

The Halloween decorations

What I love about the farm in the farm in the Fall are all the beautiful colors and hues of the surrounding area.

Looking down Route 46 West/East

The sign on the other side of the fields

The decorations in the front part of the parking lot

Poems and riddles were on all the panels

There is a very warm welcome for Halloween

Don’t forget to visit the Delaware Water Gap just down the highway. The colors are amazing in the early Fall.

The sign for the park

The Delaware Water Gap in the Fall

The beautiful hues of the park

Visiting Marshall’s Farm Stand in the Spring:

Marshall’s Farm Stand 114 Route 46 West in the Spring months

Marshall’s Farm Stand in the summer of 2023

Talk about a step back in time. It reminded me of places I used to go to as a kid that have since disappeared with suburban sprawl. I toured around the stands with shelves of fresh jellies and honey, sauces and salsa and arts and crafts. I found a nearly empty shelf of pies and doughnuts and not a sweet roll in site. The girl working the register told me that everything sells out so quickly and they had baked a second batch of everything.

The signs leading to Marshall’s Farm Stand in the summer of 2023

There were three pies left and that was it of the baked good when I got there.

I did grab one of the last bags of cider doughnuts for the trip home and freshly made cider that you rarely see any more. Most of it is processed in big facilities now not at farms. Their doughnuts were outstanding ($4.75 for six). All but two got home with me as I munched on them on the trip through the Delaware Water Gap.

The Apple Cider doughnuts at Marshall’s Farm Market

The Apple Cider doughnuts are amazing here!

In 2021, I bought the same items again but after a big breakfast and then lunch, I only ate two of the doughnuts this time.

Marshall’s Farm Stand in the summer of 2023

The Fresh peaches and plums at Marshall’s Farm Stand.

I had a lively conversation about the upcoming election and trust me, this woman said a mouthful as most people were right before the election. In 2021, people were talking about the recent Governor’s election and Murphy seems in the doghouse with most of these residents.  I said my good byes as quickly as possible. Politics is not something to talk about when buying food products.

Marshall’s Farm on a warm sunny afternoon.

At any time of the year, visiting Marshall’s Farm Stand is a treat!

The History of the Farm:

(from the Marshall Farm Market website)

Founded in 1920, by George Amer Marshall, Marshall’s Farm Market
sells quality fruit, vegetables, and specialty foods. George W. Marshall ran the farm for many years and now the third generation of Marshall’s continues the tradition. Marianne Marshall Saponaro & her husband Nick Saponaro are on site daily to make sure customers have the finest products available.

A visit to Marshall’s Farm Market is like stepping back in time. Old time values of hard work, friendliness, service, and the finest quality are what you can expect. Many people return each year to purchase produce, gifts, specialty foods, outdoor furniture, meats, cheeses, pumpkins, and more.

Families visit Marshall’s Farm Market each Fall for the hay rides and
the Halloween Hollow display. There is nothing better than a cup of apple
cider on a cool Autumn day. All of the seasons are special on the farm.  Stop in year
round to see what new items have been added to the store.

Montville Township Museum/Montville Historical Society 6 Taylortown Road Montville, NJ 07045

Montville Township Museum/Montville Historical Society

6 Taylortown Road

Montville, NJ 07045

https://montvillenj.org/426/Montville-Museum

https://www.montvilletwphistoricalsociety.com/museums

https://www.montvilletwphistoricalsociety.com/

Open: The third Sunday of each month 1:00pm-4:00pm

My review on TripAdvisor:

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g46639-d27079954-Reviews-Montville_Township_Museum-Montville_Morris_County_New_Jersey.html

The front of the Montville Township Museum at 6 Taylortown Road

The front sign

I stopped at the Morris Township Museum on a busy Sunday afternoon. The museum, housed in a building that once served the community as a school, post office and a government center.

Each of the cases holds all sorts of artifacts that reflects the towns developments and growth. The first case line is filled with fossils found in the area and small artifacts from the Lenape Indians.

The next case was filled with accessories from Victorian objects from jewelry to household items. Lining the walls are objects from the high school, personal family records for people to search on their loved one’s genealogy. The docents are hand from the Historical Society to answer any questions about the museum.

The History of the Building:

(from the museum website)

The building was originally “Old Schoolhouse #10”.  It was built in 1867 and occupies the site of a former 1837 school.  One of the early superintendents of Morris Canal, Mr. William Hickson , was its builder.​

Located at 6 Taylortown Road just down the street from Route 202 is a red brick building with a sign out front proclaiming it the “Montville Township Historical Museum”. Within its walls are articles, pictures, tapes, and memories that will carry you back through the years to times long past.

The front of the museum

About the Building: The building was constructed following the Civil War, in the year 1867. It was one of the first one-room schools in the area. The land was donated by the eastern district superintendent of the then-thriving Morris Canal, one of the many waterways then in existence to help promote trade and travel in America. William Hixson gave the land to the town for public purposes, with the stipulation that it could be reclaimed if used for a purpose with which his family disagreed.

The historic sign of the school

Reconstruction: The building began serving Montville as a one-room school heated by a potbellied stove. It also served as an auxiliary to the local Methodist Church. It became the gathering place for the local temperance league in the 1890s, and was the scene of many temperance meetings in the town.

The gardens of the front the museum

The historical collection of the museum

The history of the property:

(from the Museum website)

Entrance: Today, as you enter the museum, you walk into an entrance foyer. Probably once used to hold the boots and coats of school children, it is now an entrance hallway. The door to the main room is straight ahead, and upon entering, you step into history.

Building Uses: Forty-four years after being erected, it changed from a school to the center of political activities as the town hall. It was the town hall until 1939, when it became the town’s post office. It served as such until 1961, when a post office was constructed close by (Taylortown Road and Route 202).

Making it a Museum: After the postmen moved out of the building, the township considered selling the property to a business concern but the original Hixson agreement was recalled, and the building remained unused – until the celebration of New Jersey’s 300th Anniversary.

At that time, a Tercentenary committee was founded in the Township to help celebrate the anniversary and the Committee decided to make the establishment of a museum its main project. Armed with donations from local residents, committee members renovated the building and reopened it in 1963 as a museum.

The inside of the museum

The part of the canal that exists around the museum

Around the corner from the museum is the corner from where the Morris Canal lock was located which was on display at the museum.$

The area around where the Morris Canal was located

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morris_Canal

https://www.morriscanalgreenway.org/

I traveled further down the road to see what is left as the canal that has since grown over. Before railroads and cars, the canal system is where goods and services from the interior of the state to the cities such as New York City and Newark.

The sign marking the site of the canal and the lock system

The lock location

The grown over canal system

It is an interesting museum whose artifacts represent the three communities in Montville township.

My Life as a Firemen: The Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association: October Meeting and Entertainment October 19th, 2025

The membership arrived at the NJ State Firemen’s Home to find the home decorated for the upcoming Halloween and Thanksgiving holidays. It seemed like yesterday we were up here for the Summer Barbecues.

The outside grounds of the NJ State Firemen’s Home

We had a lot to talk about at our October meeting with the Annual Convention behind us. There had been discussions on the Home and its expansion, renovations going on and the upcoming holiday season. I thought it was one of the best meetings we had in a long time.

The outside of the home decorated for the upcoming holiday season

Our fundraising has been coming along really well and we have exceeded our drive from last year. I think the word getting out about what we do and the Social media has been a huge help. We not only want to show our fellow fire companies where their money is being spent but how it is being spent.

We discussed also our upcoming reorganization breakfast at the Wyckoff Fire Department in November and the Annual Christmas party in December. Our Secretary, Tom Simpson discussed the gift this year and a planned lunch for both the staff and the membership. Everything is underway and planned for a great holiday season.

After the meeting was over, we joined the residents in the main meeting room where refreshments were being served and the entertainment had started.

Gigi entertained the residents on a stage decorated for the upcoming Halloween season

Gigi performed a series of Classic rock and Country music

Gigi performing Dean Martin’s “That’s Amore”

Gigi performing the song “That’s Amore”

Gigi performing the Patsy Kline hit “Crazy for you”

After ending her performance with ‘God Bless America’, we got up and introduced ourselves to the residents. We let everyone know about our upcoming Christmas party, which is always a huge hit with the residents and staff alike. We also we wished them well and for their years of service to the fire service, which they seemed touched by. Then we took our group picture.

The members of the Bergen County Firemen’s Home Association

We ended the program with one of the employees of the home, Eleanor, singing with Gigi a heartfelt song., “I Believe”.

Eleanor singing “I Believe”

What I thought was interesting was one of the guys told me she had once been a backup singer to Michael Jackson. I thought that was really gift that this woman shared her voice and love for these guys.

It really was a wonderful afternoon and I want to thank everyone who made it possible. This is our gift to our fellow firefighters.